GF Starting a B!tchfest because I Voted Trump

[jdb]

I left her place immediately after telling her that I never (or will) discuss politics in the relationship. So far, a missed call and lengthy text from her that she is sorry and that I didn't care about the relationship to leave abruptly. Going ghost, I'll update on how it goes

Edit: The title might start a sh!tty political debacle. Please don't discuss politics and contribute to the relationship aspect. Thank you!

 

[Julian]

lol yeah my cousin is all like fk trump...shes mad she missed the protests, i wanna tell her thats exactly whats wrong with her and her fellow cohorts who hate trump. they are so media brainwashed, not to mention the type of person who iswilling to fuk up the highway commute for people tryig to live their lives is complete bs, or rioting and destroying your own city. you dont see trump supporters pulling this kind of fukkery. its infuriating but hey, we won and hillary an her supporters can go to hell

 

[logicallefty]

OP, you did the right thing by leaving and going ghost. Perfect. She apologized so that's a + for her. But a - for her snarky little comment about you not caring about the relationship. Which with me, that would put her back at square one. I would ghost 2-3 days at least. Then when you do talk to her, talk to her like the child she is:

You: "Ok now. You know I didn't approve of your behavior, right?"
GF/little girl "yes, I'm sorry",
You: "Ok, behave like that again and there will be no relationship for either of us to care about anymore. Are we clear?"

 

[Roober]

I didn't vote for Trump. But this is America, people can vote for whoever they want. The critisizing and demeaning of people who did so is completely ridiculous and ignorant.

 

[Serenity]

Why? It seems a bit of a butthurt move to instantly terminate contact over that? It just tastes like a reactive thing to do.

You can do it of course, but it just seems like an immature thing to do.

 

[dustmuffin]

I would grab her by the pu ssy

 

[Who Dares Win]

Good choice from your side, a beta would have try to argue or try to see her point.

There is no point to be seen or discussed when someone doesnt accept your views regardless.

The problem is women (and people who vote and think like them) view politics not any different from a soap opera with their favourite characters, it just take one of them of be unpolite to an other and they dislike him for no other reason than that.

Best action to do, drop someone who drops you choices...she rejects your right to express yourself, you reject her right to do the same.

 

[sazc]

I left her place immediately after telling her that I never (or will) discuss politics in the relationship. So far, a missed call and lengthy text from her that she is sorry and that I didn't care about the relationship to leave abruptly. Going ghost, I'll update on how it goes

Edit: The title might start a sh!tty political debacle. Please don't discuss politics and contribute to the relationship aspect. Thank you!

You did good. When you re connect with her you need to make sure that she knows you will not tolerate political disrespect in a relationship. Dont forget to tell her that you extend her the same courtesy.

Essentially you both agree to disagree, and that should be good enough

 

[jdb]

OP, you did the right thing by leaving and going ghost. Perfect. She apologized so that's a + for her. But a - for her snarky little comment about you not caring about the relationship. Which with me, that would put her back at square one. I would ghost 2-3 days at least. Then when you do talk to her, talk to her like the child she is:

You: "Ok now. You know I didn't approve of your behavior, right?"
GF/little girl "yes, I'm sorry",
You: "Ok, behave like that again and there will be no relationship for either of us to care about anymore. Are we clear?"

I agree, that snarky comment left a bad taste in my mouth. I got a VM that sounded she was sniffling saying that she was sorry how she treated me last night. Not really a use in going ghost, but I'll let her know her attitude and behavior was unacceptable last night and not let that ever happen again. She's pretty good at learning from her mistakes and not repeating them. Thanks for the insight guys.

 

[jdb]

I agree. WTF man why go ghost ? She said she is sorry. You go ghost UNTIL she says she is sorry. Not the opposite

PS: On a side note (sry I can't stop myself hehe), you voted Trump : You went full retard, never go full retard !

The last half of her text was a defensive play to 'share' the blame. If it's not your fault, why the heII would you compromise?

 

[Serenity]

Sent to me as a PM.

It's funny you say that because her text said I was immature for leaving. Perhaps I've never grew up or understand the concept that women are there to accompany you on your ride. BTW, put together my username backwards and keep it to yourself.

Why are you sending this as a PM? Why can't you share this with people in this thread?

No idea what your username backwards would mean. If you want everyone to keep their opinions and questions for themselves don't make a thread...

Leaving like that over something as trivial as this IS immature, she's right about that.

 

[bigneil]

I left her place immediately after telling her that I never (or will) discuss politics in the relationship. So far, a missed call and lengthy text from her that she is sorry and that I didn't care about the relationship to leave abruptly. Going ghost, I'll update on how it goes

Edit: The title might start a sh!tty political debacle. Please don't discuss politics and contribute to the relationship aspect. Thank you!

I know a restaurant in Buford, GA where all the girls voted Hillary and thought it was ok to b!tch me out of the restaurant (their owner probably would have fired them if he knew).

So I went there dressed as Trump on Halloween weekend. They had steam coming out their ears. I made sure just to order a drink.