gf sexy time

[zoom5]

Hello!

I have a little problem with my gf.

She's 17, im 19.

We are dating for half a year, and about 2 months ago I started slowly developing this urge to have sex with her. She didn't want to, she never had sex before. All we did was make out and I even rubbed her vagina ONCE...just rubbed, she didn't let me stick my finger in it.

Now every day I get more and more crazy about her, but she doesn't want it...
She says i'm pushing too much and such...
I know 17 is not much, but most of the girls of her age already do it... not to mention, all of my friends had sex in 2 months of relationship. She is really scared of having sex, sometimes she asks me if we just don't do it...

But then again, i'm just gonna fall apart if I ever see her naked (she's hot )...When she showed me her boobs I just laughed like a little kid...or an COMPLETE IDIOT, so she hid them and thought there was something wrong..

Can someone get me some facts straight? Am I ever gonna get "it" ?
And when? And what's the fastest method, or something?

Don't tell me i'm immature.... I know that.
And that I just want her for sex, because, everything else means a lot to me, I just got horny in the last month..

 

[RiceandChicken]

Lol.

Well she's prolly waiting for you to blow up or something. She knows you want her P. so my suggesting. Quit worrying about it. Ignore the fact that you want to fck her. Don't even get horn* around her. Be very mundane in yours actions towards her. Within a couple of days she will wonder why aren you obsessing over her body and all. Then she will feel the need to put out to get you interested in her.

 

[ontheverge123]

Dude, don't worry about it too much. You're approaching this from the wrong angle.

STOP trying to CONVINCE her to have sex. That's not sexy to talk someone into sex, it hardly even works, and even if it does work, it takes away from the experience.

What you gotta do is focus on WORKING UP to it. You said you only rubbed her vag ONCE?!?! And you're trying to talk her into sex? NO. NO. NOOOOOOOO.

Here's what you do. You work up to it slowly. Get her horny from rubbing her vag. Keep doing that when you make out with her. Get her used to that feeling of being horny from rubbing her vag. Then slowly work your way up to other things - maybe you start sliding your finger in there, maybe you start eating her out...

After you guys do this several times over weeks, she'll be more ready and willing to go further. You guys are young. It's normal for a girl her age to be unsure and not ready to have sex. ESPECIALLY if all you've done so far is rub her vag a little bit.

Be patient. DON'T be pushy. That's a turn off. SEX CANNOT BE NEGOTIATED. DON'T CONVINCE HER TO DO IT. What you have to focus on is GET HER HORNY ENOUGH OVER TIME SO THAT SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.

 

[zoom5]

What about the fact, that she never fingered herself and stuff...
When I rubbed her she said, that it feels weird...

But, yea I have to calm down, but it's driving me crazzzzy :S

 

[MtnMan]

your going to have to show her that it does feel good. I was with a girl who had never successfully gotten an orgasm from anyone else, it took quite a bit of work to get her started, but once she was in the frame of mind I could get her off very quickly.

This chick is totally new to it man, its going to take her some time to realize what feels good. Start slow, build it up. She hasn't had her hands down her pants constantly for the last 5+ years like you have. Remember that.

 

[zoom5]

well thx for the advice but we just argued in the past weeks and things are not looking bright..

 

[zoom5]

okay, we are good now, but things are not looking good, hoping for the best, but she is mad when I try to touch her or anything because she thinks i just want that...

 

[MtnMan]

you will probably have to back off. Is she wrong? The main thing you want is secks, lets be honest here! Nothing wrong with that, but you may have to pursue other options. You are so young man, don't sweat it. Are you planning on going to college? If you have any game at all you can CLEAN HOUSE in college. Learn some good game before, I didn't and I lost out on a ton of pvssy because of it.
Ah to do it all over again :crazy:

 

[zoom5]

I'm in college already... But I aint getting much game there

I kind of have to convince her to fingering, because the last time I touched her p***y was 3months ago and I just rubbed it lol. I need to make it a routine or something. But it's hard because she doesn't let me do anything under her pants...


Edit:
Today I went out with her, we were alone in the car...I managed to get into her underwear... firstly over the undervear....She was resisting but that was kind of becasue she was scaired...
The I went directly and started rubbing, she held my hand and stuff and the everything got wet down there, then I inserted my finger all the way in step by step, she said it hurts... and it did afterwards the whole night later on... But she said it didn't felt good..its just that strange feeling when i rub her..