"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GF im in LTR with says i don't show much emotion. That i dont show vulnerability...from what i read in the bible, such things can harm the relationship...

Apart from what i do though, i dont know how else to show emotion, or "vulnerability."??
I always have something fun for us to do, show genuine appreciation (without complimenting often),i am funny, and enjoy life, bringing her for the ride...

Help decipher this ******** with vulnerability.

Much appreciated...Need more info...ask.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like you are being a bit of a challenge. If you give in to her requests to become more emotional you will start to become owned by her and will lose your challenge.

If she seems happy when she is with you, disregard these bits of ********.
 
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ahh...but can being too much of a challenge be bad for the relationship??
We're about 6months in...

The only way i know to be more emotional is maybe tell her some deep stuff or be mushy...and being mushy?....thats not me.

any tips? I mean what does she mean more emotional? More emotions like soft ones instead of excitement, teasing, and fun?...gay

~WA
 
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