"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Well she didnt say it, but she had a past boy friend and she mentioned what she liked that i didnt have was that he was agressive with her... they didnt have sex though. i dont understand... i thought girls were like knobs they had to be relaxed in order to get horny, and they had to go thru lots of four play. how can i be more agressive while achieving this? please give some tips thx

p.s, i also tease a lot in bed, 1 step forward, 1 step back, 2 steps forward etc... but i dont understand how u can do this while being agressive??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tell her to shut her mouth, push her against the wall hard, cover her mouth and pound her like an animal until she crys.

I mean honestly.. why is she telling you her ex-boyfriend was more preferable to you in bed? I'd just leave her right there and tell her to be on her way.

By the way - they definately both had sex.

This girl has no respect for your feelings as a man whatsoever and doesn't mind lieing to you. Get rid I say. Get rid.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Ehhh... She went out with him for a week, i asked her what she liked so much about him, she said he was agressive. i.e, bit her lip, pushed her against the sofa, pulled her pants off like a animal... he ate her out she admitted, FINALLY.. after about a week and a half later... it didnt bother me cus i did things myself when we were seperated.. she told me he tried to make her suck his **** but she didnt, she hates sucking ****. and he stopped toying with her and just fell asleep.. yeah thats about it. she hates the guy for spreading rumours they had sex. but she swears and puts it on her life that im the only guy she ****ed. she said it to her friends...
 
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Drama aside it might not hurt to try being more aggressive. Never hurts to expand your repertoire. May not be your thing though...
 
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A woman will never forget the guy who pounded her the hardest. I still think about my pro-hockey player fvck buddy and this was about 10 months ago. One guy came close, he was gentle at times and very aggressive at times, but I've never been ****ed as good as the hockey player ****ed me. I swear I saw stars.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well aggressive just means no steps back in your terms. Women never actually know what they want so don't worry too much about what they say - if she is having fun with you in the sack and there is variety then most likely things are fine.
 
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Next time u have sex with her. Be like I am not aggressive enough. throw her against bed, Stick your dvck in her mouth, and talk shvt her. Then hit that pvssy hard slap her around, spit on her. She wants aggressive show her what aggressive is.
 
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I swear I saw stars.
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LOL that's what my ex-girlfriend (and current FB) tells me.

But really, you should be communicating well enough in bed that she can tell you "Harder! Harder!". If she's too shy to say it, just start pounding her and ask if she likes it. You can make yourself more agressive by talking dirty to her, holding her hands down etc. I'd, uh, not spit on her unless you're really sure she's into that.
 
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DonDan said:
Well she didnt say it, but she had a past boy friend and she mentioned what she liked that i didnt have was that he was agressive with her... they didnt have sex though. i dont understand... i thought girls were like knobs they had to be relaxed in order to get horny, and they had to go thru lots of four play. how can i be more agressive while achieving this? please give some tips thx

p.s, i also tease a lot in bed, 1 step forward, 1 step back, 2 steps forward etc... but i dont understand how u can do this while being agressive??
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lol, reminds me when i first had sex with my then G/F (now Fiance).. and my right side (ribs)..(sports play) was hurting... so i went slow and just took it easy. She was like its okay.. and i said its not okay because i knew in my mind i could bang her lights out. Well.. week later my side got better, i Smashed the hell outta her... She passed out on the bed and said she couldnt walk because her legs were too shaky :up: But pull her hair, smack that azz, talk dirty to her... be aggressive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I told you - hors want to be treated like hors and not like women!!!!! You disrespect them when you treat them like a lady!!!
 
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