"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gf present ideas

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In continuation to last thread gf cancelled her night out, without a word from me.

Next problem:
We been seeing each other for 9 months now and she bought me a Xbox and other games £200 for my bday

Need advice on what to get as her bday in 2 week time, she's 21 years old
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SamTheHobit

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Maybe a necklace or something?
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Maybe a necklace or something?
Dont like the fact, that if she does not like it, she feels she has to wear it while around me, don't want resentment to build up
 

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Pandora bracelet, take her shopping and let her pick some charms out herself. Its more than id want to spend but considering her gift to you then it will work out bout equal.
 
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