"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GF Pregnant, what to do?

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Be glad she's not keeping it and ruining both your young lives.

That sentimental pro life crap goes right out the window when you've got a screaming brat in front of you and an overweight b!tchy wife/girlfriend whose let herself go after the pregnancy to contend with.

What you should do from this moment on is encourage her that she's making the right decision for both your lives, offer to pay for it or help pay for it if she mentions being strapped for cash and when its finally over with go run up a set of steps like you are in a Rocky movie out of celebration for your life not being over and your not having to work extra hard and slave your life away to provide for a family you didn't ask for and did not want.

If however it really bothers you and you just can't get the bothered feeling out of your mind suggest she have it and give it up for adoption.

Then realize thats all the power you have as she can either have it and keep it and make you pay for it or go through with giving it up for adoption.

You are a man and have absolutely no rights over your child.

How does that make you feel?

Anyway though these are your options.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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