How do you guys know if a girl is gf potential or just a **** buddy. I just got out of a LTR, and been down for a while. I just met this girl last night from facebook. At first she was really quiet and kinda shy and i was feeling her and thought she had some long term potential, but then during the movie, I put my arm around her, then she started making out with me and put my hand on her *****. I then messed around with her a lil in the car and we talked. She asked me a lot of questions like what am i looking for, how many women i slept with, but i used DJ tactics to get out of answering these questions. I didnt really want to know how many guys she slept with because my ex slept with 3, and even that bothered me. Is it worth knowing? What do you guys think. I think shes pretty cute, and shes feeling me a whole lot, and i do like talkn to her but she could be a hoe. i know i can already sleep with her guaranteed already. Do you guys think shes necessarily a slut or could she just be feeling me because shes telln me that she doesnt want me to think shes a hoe and that she doesnt do this sorta thing usually. I'm a tall good lookn guy so I neva know if the girls are easy or just are really feeln me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
gf potential vs **** buddy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You young kids are delusional --- a G/F and a "F" buddy are the same thing - except that the G/F is a full-time "F" buddy (Hor) and the "F' Buddy is a part-time G/F (Hor)!!! The equation is Hor = Hor...the variable being "part-time" or "full-time"!!!
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I think LMS just stumbled onto the theory of hor-ativity :crackup:.Last Man Standing said:You young kids are delusional --- a G/F and a "F" buddy are the same thing - except that the G/F is a full-time "F" buddy (Hor) and the "F' Buddy is a part-time G/F (Hor)!!! The equation is Hor = Hor...the variable being "part-time" or "full-time"!!!
So what do you guys think about this situation. I dont want to treat ***** like a real woman. YOu think its worth asking her about her past, or is it better to just get the sex and dont even question her about anything. LIke last night she called me and we talkd for like an hour. It was fun talking to her, but im thinking i probably shouldnt be doing stuff like that since it might give her signs that im interested in something long term.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Dman101, can you share the tactic you used to avoid those questions? I can't think of a way to stumble out of these questions.Dman101 said:She asked me a lot of questions like what am i looking for, how many women i slept with, but i used DJ tactics to get out of answering these questions.
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She wants a relationship and thinks offering ***** will make it happen.
Basically, she is a fool, neither out for casual sex nor marriagable. LMS actually has a point here, for once. It'sa temporary thing wether its for the short or long run. I'd say you have sex and fun with her, treat her decently but don't commit. It sounds like the girl is young and naive and easy because of that. I doubt she has been with many men so far. What are your ages?
One thing to add; a girl can be easy and stop being easy and become a decent woman, just like an afc can become a DJ, but not every caterpillar becomes a butterfly, some are just worms.
Basically, she is a fool, neither out for casual sex nor marriagable. LMS actually has a point here, for once. It'sa temporary thing wether its for the short or long run. I'd say you have sex and fun with her, treat her decently but don't commit. It sounds like the girl is young and naive and easy because of that. I doubt she has been with many men so far. What are your ages?
One thing to add; a girl can be easy and stop being easy and become a decent woman, just like an afc can become a DJ, but not every caterpillar becomes a butterfly, some are just worms.
To avoid answering those questions i just laughed about it and said i slept with 48 women. SHe kept asking but I just told her that its not gonna help anything knowing that but that im not a hoe. Then when she asked what i'm lookn for I just said i dont have any intentions.
I think youre right she def seems to want a relationship shes telln her friends and sister about me already after one day. I'm 22 just finished college, and shes 19 in college. The thing is i'm really against women who slept with a lot of guys, so in a way i do want to know how many guys she been wif so i can see what category to put her in, but if the number is high i'd probably not wana really talk to her. This is my first real plate since breaking up wif da ex a few months ago. Da otha is a girl i just get head from wenever i want, and that doesnt really do much for me no more.