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Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2007
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well for the first time ever, I find myself being the only single guy in my group of friends.
It's bee a good few years and it looks like all my friends are focused towards the generic end, marriage, house, kids.
This isn't even in my perception at all right now and I'm the oldest out of them. I'm happy being single and hanging out with a girl here and there to only come home to myself and stress free living.
Lately, I find my friends are too busy with their gfs to ever really hang out, and if we do it's more along the lines of running errands and such. No more random parties, outings having unpredictable fun. It's become get-togethers for couples where I'm the odd man out.
I started asking myself, do I want a gf? I mean I'd fit in more with my friends and she'd help fill the gap that they've created. Then I wonder, should I just find single friends instead? I've never had to consider making new friends and I wouldn't even know where to start, I'm not into the whole bar/club scene and it's not like days of high school where it was easier. Also, the shift of seasons into the upcoming holidays has been lingering in my mind, making me question if maybe I do want a gf... Any advice?
It's bee a good few years and it looks like all my friends are focused towards the generic end, marriage, house, kids.
This isn't even in my perception at all right now and I'm the oldest out of them. I'm happy being single and hanging out with a girl here and there to only come home to myself and stress free living.
Lately, I find my friends are too busy with their gfs to ever really hang out, and if we do it's more along the lines of running errands and such. No more random parties, outings having unpredictable fun. It's become get-togethers for couples where I'm the odd man out.
I started asking myself, do I want a gf? I mean I'd fit in more with my friends and she'd help fill the gap that they've created. Then I wonder, should I just find single friends instead? I've never had to consider making new friends and I wouldn't even know where to start, I'm not into the whole bar/club scene and it's not like days of high school where it was easier. Also, the shift of seasons into the upcoming holidays has been lingering in my mind, making me question if maybe I do want a gf... Any advice?