GF on vacation - wants me to call everyday

[illmatic1005]

oh hi..my gf is on vacation for one week..i talked to her on the phone yesterday and she said she wants me to call/text her 3 times a day...

i told her, 'i wanna leave u alone, your on vacation have some fun" and she said "find, you dont wanna talk to me, i see" and said bye..

she still wants me to call tho...

what should i do? Should i not answer her calls and not call her 2 days in a row and say i was busy? but theres no way i can ignore her texts..

dont get me wrong, i love talking to her..but i want her to miss me a lil while shes on vacation.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Have you considered not calling her? She has a phone, she can call and if you're available, you can talk for a bit. If you're busy she can leave a VM.

 

[illmatic1005]

Have you considered not calling her? She has a phone, she can call and if you're available, you can talk for a bit. If you're busy she can leave a VM.

yea of course i considered that..but whenever i takl to her she says 'call me at blah blah" or "call me before you go to bed"...

i cant just forget to call because she'll think i dont wanna talk to her, right?

 

[Potbelly]

Are you fvcking stupid? Why can't you ignore texts? I never respond to texts even with my iPhone...it's a damn phone if people want to talk they can call me like normal human beings.

Goddam people are so fvcking stupid...don't even know how to "ignore texts." wah wah wah!!! I can't do it!!

Who cares if she thinks you don't want to talk to her? If that's what you feel like, don't call her. If you want ot talk, talk...something tells me your AFC Ass is going to talk to her for an hour or more when you DO call...fvckin chump. Better to sell your phone and feed some poor children.

You're pathetic...look at what this woman has reduced you to...a pile of second self-guessing sh1t.

 

[illmatic1005]

You're pathetic...look at what this woman has reduced you to...a pile of second self-guessing sh1t.

good wake up call..thanks

 

[Moofahsa]

How long have you been together?

If it has only been a month or so then thats a little much.

But if it has been a year why is that at all strange to talk on the phone for an hour?

 

[Alphamale1821]

Are you fvcking stupid? Why can't you ignore texts? I never respond to texts even with my iPhone...it's a damn phone if people want to talk they can call me like normal human beings.

Goddam people are so fvcking stupid...don't even know how to "ignore texts." wah wah wah!!! I can't do it!!

Who cares if she thinks you don't want to talk to her? If that's what you feel like, don't call her. If you want ot talk, talk...something tells me your AFC Ass is going to talk to her for an hour or more when you DO call...fvckin chump. Better to sell your phone and feed some poor children.

You're pathetic...look at what this woman has reduced you to...a pile of second self-guessing sh1t.

LMAO:crackup: thats harsh but damn so true. These guy's have got to start thinking like men, If i don't want to talk to a biitch on the phone i don't talk to here. Simple as that. It's not fuucking rocket science. I guess we know who the "biitch" is in the relationship.

How about YOU calll her when YOU want to. if she ask other wise tell her whatever the fuuck you want. She's out of town and you have the leverage and the power. Yet you don't realize that and she is using the power. Come on man get your head right chump.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Young Potbelly is rather crude but correct nonetheless. Reframe it this way:

KARMIC LAW #24 - The best gift you can give women is the gift of missing you.

If you call her every minute of every day going over every excrutiating minutia you do not allow her mind to wander and think about you. Rather you keep her mind occupied with nothing BUT you which leads her to become bored and discontent.

 

[KontrollerX]

LOL, great posts Karma and Potbelly.

Another way you can handle situations like these is be like sure baby I'll call you.

Then either never call or call her only once and she'll be pining away wondering when you her big strong man will call her lmao.

She'll probably be mad when she gets back like you said you would call!!!

Then you answer I did baby then kiss her on the forehead and walk away lol.

 

[NSUballer]

Im in houston at the moment and my GF is in louisiana. She told me pretty much the same thing. She wants you to call/text her to feel secure in the relationship. I talk to my GF everyday. yesterday i told her i would call her back and never did. and i heard about it. my only problem is I dont really want to talk to my GF = )

 

[aliasguy]

Don't say you're gonna call and then don't.

Just ignore the the REQUEST. ACT like you never heard it. Change the subject. Whatever. Screw your other plates when she's gone.

And if she b*tches about it, ignore that, too.


And if it comes up again, deny, deny, deny.

 

[Kev07]

If you want to call her, then call her.

If you SAY you're going to call her, then be a man of your words and call her, otherwise, don't say you'll call her.


three times a day is way too much, you handled it well with the "you're on vacation i dont want to bother you"

Wouldn't hurt to give her a call at night to see how she's doing and go to sleep, it's not like you have to actually talk to her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

yea of course i considered that..but whenever i takl to her she says 'call me at blah blah" or "call me before you go to bed"...

i cant just forget to call because she'll think i dont wanna talk to her, right?

Yeah.... Heaven forbid she thinks that you mind her making sure you check in before curfew.