"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gf of3 months broke up with me.

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And I want to try and figure out why, im not mopey and sad, I was a little angry.

1. I wasn't really a challenge, or was I looking for other branches.
2. I tended to not listen to her when she told me to do something, I even once told her I wasn't her *****.
3.she was 18 and I am 23, I figure that may play a part as well.

The day it all started I was a saturday night when we did our bowling with friends thing, and I had some drinks (she didn't want to let me drink....ever.) After that we went to my friends cookout, where she TOLD me I wasn't having any drinks.... I said forget that and hit up the beer pong table. After we were leaving she drove me home and told me to not go back, I said ok, I went in to give her a kiss goodnight and she got ****ty, Im not making out with you you taste like beer. I said ok fine, What days are you off. (which she thought was mean) then I left.

I went back to the cookout, and then the next time I saw her she said a total of six words to me.

Then over the FVCKING INTERNET.

She said I hurt her yadda yadda and she just does not feel the same anymore, and when I pushed for her to tell me face to face she just said she can't because she doesn't want to hurt me. So basically she broke up with me on the internet.


Mabye I am a **** but personally I could care less, It was my mistake dating an 18 year old naive daddy's girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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HalfAddict said:
...Mabye I am a **** but personally I could care less, It was my mistake dating an 18 year old naive daddy's girl.
At 23 I don't see any advantages of dating anyone under 21.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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lYlasTer said:
The girls have been with less guys, and usually easier to bed ;)
So are hookers, but without all the chatter nor the drama. Just because it has a hole, it doesn't mean you have to put something in it. ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It sounds like she was trying to control you and you're better off without her. You don't need a masculine, controlling woman. You two obviously weren't compatible. Be glad you broke up as soon as you did; now you can find someone better.

In fact, considering you were being a man and not her b1tch, she's really the one missing out. She may eventually find someone who will let her boss him around, but it won't be anyone she can respect or truly love.
 
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