I can tell you exactly why this relationship failed with just two quotes..
She said that I like her a lot, more than she likes me and that I'm very sweet.
I hate leaving it up to the woman to initiate contact with me because 99% of the time they don't.
Dude......stop chasing women. Just stop it. You said you've read the bible twice. Surely you've read Anti-Dump's machine. Surely you know that you need to test a woman's interest all the time. Let me repeat it again,
DO NOT CHASE WOMEN!. When you let the woman chase you she becomes invested in you. The more she invests in you, the more her feelings grow for you. She never fell in love with you because you never gave her the chance. The reason you're so torn up over this is because you've invested so much into her and now she's gone. The dynamic should've been reversed. This is more than game or PUA tactics, this is basic human psychology. The more we invest in a person the more feelings we develop for that person.
V. Adhere to the golden ratio
Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants.
This is a quote from the 16 commandments of poon
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/. Henceforth this is your gospel. Adhere to it with no wavering.
Right now you need to stay no contact. Trying to win her back is just you investing more into her and her losing even less attraction for you. Women love men who have higher value than them. A higher value man doesn't grovel at his ex's feet trying to win her back. The only way you have even the slightest chance of winning her back is by staying no contact, moving on with your life and fvcking other women. Maybe in 6 months or so she'll see how awesome you've become and want you back. In that case you probably won't give a fvck about her because you'll have better things to do and better women to fvck. Good luck to you. Listen to us. Unlike you many of us have been in the situation you are and now know what it takes to get out of it.
