"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GF of my close friend Coming On Hard.....

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Ok let me preface this by saying I would never consider doing the unthinkable in this situation because I like to believe I have some semblance of personal honor and integrity....

We're at a bar and one of my best friends girlfriend of over a year starts getting intense. She comes up to me where we are fairly isolated, tells me I am sexy, she tells me I need a relationship with a nice girl, I tell her maybe but I prefer my relationships with females to be 90% sexual in nature to get her off the subject, she responds that she "would" be my ladyfriend in those circumstances. I just rolled with it and said she must have good taste between her boyfriend and I. I was still taken aback. I've always gotten signals for this girl. She has an odd sexual nickname for me that she has always called me in front of her boyfriend and we always seem to be caught in some not so casual eye contact. So consequently I didn't make a **** ton of the episode but then as we we're leaving the bar she told me I was sexy again....within earshot but not loud enough for her boyfriend to hear. Then a minute later she suggested a threesome to her boyfriend. LOL! My friend (the boyfriend) was so drunk he either couldn't respond or wasn't even paying attention to what was being said.

Ok this ***** is either A. That into me and thinks i'm a disloyal friend, B. Really struggling to get attention from her boyfriend (my close friend) or C. Fvckin crazy as shiite.

If I were him and I heard her sayin that shiite I would have kicked her ass outa my life faster than grass but im not sure if he did or remembers it. Should I say somthing to him? Should I tell him she's probably out doing this with other guys? Or should I keep to myself and avoid her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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T Money

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Well let me tell you, that first sentence you said...you'd never do the unthinkable, don't ever do it. Because I did. And I didn't realize what I had until it was gone.

Get another girl dude.
 

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Shes a crackpot

If it were me I'ld tell my best mate about her pronto
 

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Have you heard the saying "bros before hoes"?

If this gals BF is a close friend of yours, I'd probably say something to him at least. You have to be the ultimate judge of what to say, but be careful not to to appear as though you're doing it to eventually get into her pants, even if that is in your gameplan.
 

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XFactor said:
Shes a crackpot

If it were me I'ld tell my best mate about her pronto
That's what i would do... Be real with your friends. Women cvm and go (pun intented), friends stay with you for life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't ever plan on getting in her pants like I said. It's just an awkward situation to have to tell my friend....especially since i'm pretty sure he knows already! Weird!
 

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Yep its a pretty cut and dry answer tell ya boy ab this slvtbag bc if shes willing to try and hook up with her BFs good friend who's to say she wont try to hook up with some guy her BF dont know??
 

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Just be like man i dunno whats up with her but shes always makin passes at me an stuff. And if he says hes gonna break up w/ her tell him that u 2 should turn that h0e out the day bfore he breaks it off. Maybe thats not a good idea but its worth a shot.
 
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