"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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GF of 2.5 years got BV!

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I just need to get another opinion. For the past few weeks, I noticed that my GF had a fishy smell. I didn't say anything, but I think the look on my face gave it away I noticed it. Anyway, last night I come home (we live together) and I realized there is a pill bottle on the coffee table. I look at the description, do a google search and I find it's associated with BV. Anyway, when she comes out of the bathroom, I pretended I needed to run to the store, just to see if she would move it. Anyway, I come back 15 minutes later and the pills are gone. Finally, today I bring it up and she said she knew what it was since 2pm yesterday. I asked her why she wouldn't tell me this after 2.5 years together and her answer was she was going to. Am I wrong to have concerns?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bacterial Vaginosis

http://www.cdc.gov/std/bv/stdfact-bacterial-vaginosis.htm

It's not an STD, but a bacterial infection. Not much is known about it.

She could've had a raw steak wrapped in her panties before she put them on, or used her dildo to clean the insides of a Thanksgiving turkey and didn't clean it off. Regardless, it's not a whole lot to worry about.

Male sex partners of women diagnosed with BV generally do not need to be treated. However, BV may be transferred between female sex partners.
It's of no danger to you, but you may have given it to her if you've been fvcking other women.
 

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If it is a yeast infection, aka candida, it can be sexually transmitted from woman to man. It's a harmless rash, though, and will go away rapidly on its own.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bacterial Vaginosis

http://www.cdc.gov/std/bv/stdfact-bacterial-vaginosis.htm

It's not an STD, but a bacterial infection. Not much is known about it.

She could've had a raw steak wrapped in her panties before she put them on, or used her dildo to clean the insides of a Thanksgiving turkey and didn't clean it off. Regardless, it's not a whole lot to worry about.



It's of no danger to you, but you may have given it to her if you've been fvcking other women.

if that is the case can't be like someone else visited that vagina recently and not only the op? hence why she is not willing to talk?
 

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Bacterial Vaginosis

http://www.cdc.gov/std/bv/stdfact-bacterial-vaginosis.htm

It's not an STD, but a bacterial infection. Not much is known about it.

She could've had a raw steak wrapped in her panties before she put them on, or used her dildo to clean the insides of a Thanksgiving turkey and didn't clean it off. Regardless, it's not a whole lot to worry about.



It's of no danger to you, but you may have given it to her if you've been fvcking other women.
OMG I'm laughing my ass off.
I had no idea what BV was until just now, but my boys in Steel Panther have a song called BVS - Big Vagina Syndrome. That would explain the reason she put a turkey leg up it past it's sell by date and ended up with BV.
 

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If it is a yeast infection, aka candida, it can be sexually transmitted from woman to man. It's a harmless rash, though, and will go away rapidly on its own.
Nope, yeast is fungal. Bacterial means bacteria....a much more complicated organism than a fungus. Fungal meds do not work on bacteria. Trust me, I'm a pharmacist.

So she has a bacterial infection, localized down there. It doesn't seem like too big a deal, I think.
 

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Nope, yeast is fungal. Bacterial means bacteria....a much more complicated organism than a fungus. Fungal meds do not work on bacteria. Trust me, I'm a pharmacist.

So she has a bacterial infection, localized down there. It doesn't seem like too big a deal, I think.
Fine, academic point taken - yeast is classified as a fungus.

My point was that a woman can transfer a yeast infection to a man as an STI. My scholarly source for that fact is my d!ck, which has gotten one before.
 

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You gotta understand it's embarrassing to tell, regardless of how long you've been together. Only one day had passed and she might have worried thinking about how to say it. You don't know if she was going to tell you soon anyways and she must have known it would be impossible to really hide it from you.

There's nothing to be concerned about.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fine, academic point taken - yeast is classified as a fungus.

My point was that a woman can transfer a yeast infection to a man as an STI. My scholarly source for that fact is my d!ck, which has gotten one before.
Yep, living organisms like to reproduce and spread, They are funny that way. :)
 

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Maybe it's just me, but a stinky gash is a deal breaker for me. Any kind of bad smell actually. I had a bird in the hand on a business trip - a solid 7 who was good to go. We were at an evening mixer and she was drunk but I could smell her feet. Standing up I could smell her feet. I tried to save the day by suggesting we continue the party with a night swim in the resort pool, where we could continue to drink, thinking "if I could just get those smelly dogs underwater, I can salvage this sure thing and do the deed". She insisted on continuing to party on dry land, likely bc she was shy about getting into a bathing suit, so I bailed and said goodnight. It wasn't so much a "choice" on my part, but I always say that my little head rules my big head but my nose has unilateral veto power. I. Just. Can't.
 

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I've found that every frequent cigarette smoker I've ever dated has had BV.

Also, a girl can get BV if she has sex with a new guy or with multiple guys in a short period of time. I'm not trying to scare you, 9 times out of 10 it's just some sort of idiopathic infection, but it's a good thing to keep a heads up.

I had a girlfriend once who would get BV every time she had unprotected sex, no matter who it was with. So it was either deal with a stinky vag or wear condoms every time. Needless to say that relationship didn't last.
 

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If it is a yeast infection, aka candida, it can be sexually transmitted from woman to man. It's a harmless rash, though, and will go away rapidly on its own.
Not fvcking fun! I've had the oral version, it's disgusting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bv can be caused by several things and one of them is from having multiple sexual partners.

Time to start paying attention to things. Does she have a ho kit in her car? A ho kit is a bag with all the things a ho takes to someone's house to fuuck them. Extra underwear, perfume, clothes, nighty, etc.
 

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are you circumcised? I once dated a guy who wasn't and kept getting them from him.
yea, idk what to tell you. I've had yeast infections before, but a female should learn how to to care for her body so she doesn't get those. I rarely get them. and there's OTC for them.
 

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Hi All -


I just need to get another opinion. For the past few weeks, I noticed that my GF had a fishy smell. I didn't say anything, but I think the look on my face gave it away I noticed it. Anyway, last night I come home (we live together) and I realized there is a pill bottle on the coffee table. I look at the description, do a google search and I find it's associated with BV. Anyway, when she comes out of the bathroom, I pretended I needed to run to the store, just to see if she would move it. Anyway, I come back 15 minutes later and the pills are gone. Finally, today I bring it up and she said she knew what it was since 2pm yesterday. I asked her why she wouldn't tell me this after 2.5 years together and her answer was she was going to. Am I wrong to have concerns?
Is this the same girl? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/domestic-violence-from-my-pregnant-girlfriend.216374/

If so, good grief man, there is no helping you. I really hope what happened is that you dumped this psycho chick, and picked another one up right after. But the 2.5 year timeline says otherwise...

Is it even your kid?
 

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