"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GF nervous to try new things.

mtlwlu

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Havent been on here in a while, good to be back.

Anyways

my current gf, we've been dating for 6 months, shes a hb 9, 5'2 110 at most, girly girl type, the one I always wanted. Perfect...right?

Well shes only 18, and is afraid to try new things, shes scared to go on top, but whats worse shes afraid to give a bj...

I guess thats Karma, I always said bjs are overrated, but you dont know what you got till its gone.

Any advice on how to help her get over her anxiety?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SandHawk

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I've had one of those in the past. It's horrible, and you're not going to talk sense into them. There is only one way to get them to do it: Get them so horny and wet that they'll do anything for you. Want her to ride on top? F*ck her missionary, grab her upperbody and roll on your back while holding her.

Want her to suck the sheets into your anus? Grab her hair, slam her on the back and kneel next to her, look her deep in the eyes with a look that says "Don't you dare to disobey me" and tell her to suck it.

If you have a girl that's not open for experimentation, you're best off to dump her ass, because she'll moan and complain about trying new things all the time. I've had close minded girls in the past, and they don't open up, no matter what you do / try. The only way to get them to open up is to unleash their inner slut, which means you need to have the proper attitude towards sex.
 

Myrrdin

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What if you try going down on her? She'll return the favor.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You must do sexy things with her. Make her want to be crazy. For example, don't wear any underwear. Girls love that. When you get in the car make sure that your jeans are unzipped. When she looks over she sees how excited you really are. Lets her know that you do want her. You can even stroke if you like.

Another trick that goes back to the ancient peoples is to just innocently rub yourself in the groin area when she is around. Don't act like you are doing it on purpose. Just rub like you are massaging it for a few seconds. Also make sure you go to the restroom when you are out. Girls love to think about you letting loose while they are waiting for you.
 
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