"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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illmatic1005

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my Gf's friends and even her mother tell her that i dont like and her and i think shes trashy and boring and all that stuff..even tho i dont think that at all

when she hears this she feels really bad that i'll break up with her and stuff, even tho i dont think that stuff and dont wanna break up with her..

she still thinks the stuff they tell them is true tho...

what should i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuanNJ81

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well i would confront everyone whose telling her these things and ask them why they're doing it. More likely then not, they are doing it because they dont want her dating you...including mom. One for sure way to reinforce the fact that you really do like her is to confront these people IN FRONT of her.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, confront the people and ask them why like DonJuanNJ81 said. Then, sit down and talk with your girlfriend some more and let her know how you feel.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh yeah, confront the mother, they usually enjoy having their daughter's boyfriend question how she interacts with her daughter ... Guess who's going to get the fallout after you talk to mom? Some goes for her friends, somebody's going to hear about your talk big time.
 
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