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illmatic1005

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my Gf's friends and even her mother tell her that i dont like and her and i think shes trashy and boring and all that stuff..even tho i dont think that at all

when she hears this she feels really bad that i'll break up with her and stuff, even tho i dont think that stuff and dont wanna break up with her..

she still thinks the stuff they tell them is true tho...

what should i do?
 

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DonJuanNJ81

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well i would confront everyone whose telling her these things and ask them why they're doing it. More likely then not, they are doing it because they dont want her dating you...including mom. One for sure way to reinforce the fact that you really do like her is to confront these people IN FRONT of her.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, confront the people and ask them why like DonJuanNJ81 said. Then, sit down and talk with your girlfriend some more and let her know how you feel.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh yeah, confront the mother, they usually enjoy having their daughter's boyfriend question how she interacts with her daughter ... Guess who's going to get the fallout after you talk to mom? Some goes for her friends, somebody's going to hear about your talk big time.
 
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