"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gf home alone this weekend...

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so my gf's mom(lesbian) and her gf are leaving to san francisco today and my gf is gonna be home alone all weekend... im going over on sat and sleeping over too and i want to get farther then i did last time....

we were supposed to go to the movies last week but we didnt because the bus took long and i dont drive yet...so we went back to her dads place and we started making out after a while and well we ended up with her nothing on but her undies and me with my boxers...she was feeling me up over my boxers and such and i was feeling her up everywhree....then we heard a loud ass noise outside and were like OH ****!!! and we scramble and hurry to put our clothes on because we thought her dad got out early...well after we got dressed she checked the door and it was just some drunk guy walking around lol that must have been the funniest thing EVER that has happened to me...


so yeah tomorrow we wont have any interruptions and we were talking and i brought up stripping and after awhile of discussing it she said she'll do it for me and she really wants to try it and all so yeah shes gonna be stripping down for me and she said at first that only to her panties but then i said aww why u might as well go all the way and she thought about it and she said well see how it goes i might...

so yeah how do i move things further?
if we end up having sex, any tips?

note* im a virgin and so is she
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you do anything during sex, it's communicate. Ask her if something feels good or if you want to adjust. Nothing's worse than an inexperienced partner that doesn't accommodate to his partner. Make it a good experience for the both of you. And please, use a condom.

-Damian
 

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What signal or whatever told you she was ready to hook-up with you when she did?
 

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Rub one off before you go there... buy some condoms.. do what you did last time by getting her clothes off, make sure she's ready to do it

pound away =)

I made a thread about your first time having sex, READ IT

its about two months old, do a search for it
 

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well long story short, her aunt decided to go to san fransisco with her mom so her cousin had to stay over...she was scared that the cousin might walk in on us because while we were in her room her cousin would just come in and ****block saying stuff like "what are u guys doing" "keep it pg-13" and other stupid ****...

so we waited till she went to sleep in the next room but she was still scared of her waking up or something so the farthest we got was undressing, let her play and massage my woody and i played with her pvssy...but its all good, i had fun =]







Maeisgood:

she told me like a couple of weeks ago "babe im ready" and things like that....also she asked me during the day what would i say if she wanted to have sex tonight...and she just drops things like that every so often



AC/DC:

by rub one off do u mean masturbate? lol
yeah i dont want any kids running around anytime soon...thanx for the tip
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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