"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gf having a spazz over nothing.. am i in the wrong?

chance

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so not long ago my gf gives me sexy pics of her. not nude. but one of the pics shes bending over and showing alot of cleavage. and shes in tight shorts... so i showed this guy i know who lives on the other side of the world.. malaysia, i mean i told her i wouldn't show no one but im thinking like... someone we know.. of course i wouldn't. but why would she make a big deal out of this? what does it matter if i showed him the pic lol. she had a fit and text me telling me to delete her number (this aint the first time either). i usually just ignore her and she ends up calling me again the next day. are these tests or something? i must be passing them if she keeps comin back.

was i doing bad for what i did though? i admit it wasn't nice since i i said i wouldnt show but she's over reacting. i think so anyway. and id just be a d!ck to give in and say sorry like a wuss.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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a woman typically doesn't want her man to give away the intimacy between you two. What happened between you two, stays between you.

Yes, you were wrong for showing it to some guy. You were even more wrong because you promised you wouldn't. That shows that you are immature.
 

drak_ool

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are you in the wrong for showing non-nude pics of your girl to someone? NO

are you in the wrong for breaking her trust? YES

However, she is overdoing this to the point where it becomes a **** test. Just ignore her for a few days and it will be all over.

To truly help you with your question, though, I need to see the pics myself...
 

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showing sexy pics of your girlfriend, is one sure-fire way of annoying her. It would annoy most women!
 

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All replies were weak.

Tell her to chill out, they werent even nude. I would probably show them to my friends too.

Id be more annoyed at her over-reacting and telling me to delete her number.

I agree however, to properly help you, we need to see..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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why did u have to tell her u showed the pics to some dude half way round the world?
 

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chance said:
she had a fit and text me telling me to delete her number (this aint the first time either). i usually just ignore her and she ends up calling me again the next day. are these tests or something?
Is this a typical girl thing to do? I do this to girls. I never call them back though. I just tell them to take my number out of their phones. Lame?
 

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scribblec said:
why did u have to tell her u showed the pics to some dude half way round the world?

Exactly! Especially if this guy was someone half way across the world who would most likely never meet her...





PIMP
 

drak_ool

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chance said:
fair enough. here it is...
First of all props for putting the pic on the web, for the whole world to see! Now how you gonna explain this to her?

seriously though, this is not an incriminating picture (your girl has a nice rack btw), the only issue here is you promised her not to do this, so that's why she's mad at you.

You should not apologize for it, just make a joke of the whole thing and let it slide. Chances are, by the time she calls you that's what she wants to hear.

on the negative side, forget about ever making tapes with this girl... If you ever do though, PM me for quality control ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stop telling your little wh0re everything that you do............what YOU do is YOUR OWN PERSONAL PRIVATE BUSINESS...........only a total pvssy.......a TOTAL PVSSY would tell his stupid little "girlfriend" about everything, in full detail, that he does.

Are you a fvcking don juan, or just a little prick who lucked out on the first piece of azz who gave you the time of day????

guys like you......edit...........PVSSIES like you make me sick...........how much more pvssified as a useless "man" can you get?????
 

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Rescue Mission said:
stop telling your little wh0re everything that you do............what YOU do is YOUR OWN PERSONAL PRIVATE BUSINESS...........only a total pvssy.......a TOTAL PVSSY would tell his stupid little "girlfriend" about everything, in full detail, that he does.

Are you a fvcking don juan, or just a little prick who lucked out on the first piece of azz who gave you the time of day????

guys like you......edit...........PVSSIES like you make me sick...........how much more pvssified as a useless "man" can you get?????
Thanks brother for saying it. This is what it really comes down to. He told her without her even asking.

You know when else this used to happen? when we were little kids and felt guilty and had to tell mommie what we did. I truly believe OP has maturity problems and is still a kid inside to when he feels guilty or does something wrong he feels the need to tell his gf.

Let me ask you something OP. If you go celebrate spring break with your buddies are you going to be telling your gf what went down there? You gotta learn to keep stuff for yourself and grow up a little brother.
 
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f283000 said:
Thanks brother for saying it. This is what it really comes down to. He told her without her even asking.

You know when else this used to happen? when we were little kids and felt guilty and had to tell mommie what we did. I truly believe OP has maturity problems and is still a kid inside to when he feels guilty or does something wrong he feels the need to tell his gf.

Let me ask you something OP. If you go celebrate spring break with your buddies are you going to be telling your gf what went down there? You gotta learn to keep stuff for yourself and grow up a little brother.

Now is the part where he disappears and let's this thread die, without taking any advice out of it whatsoever, nor responding to any of your questions.

Pvssies are so predictable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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