"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gf happy not spending too much time with me.

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jakeyboy

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hey mates.

my girlfriend is a tad queer. usually my previous girlfriends would be all upset when i can't spend much time with them, but this time it's different.

we're in the same uni but hardly see each other during weekdays. is that abnormal? she's usually hanging with her mates and i with mine cos our timetables clash sometimes.

but even when she's got some free time or we end school at similar hours she doesn't take the initiative to ask me if i wanna hang with her.

so we usually spend time with each other over the weekend.

pardon me if i'm sounding like an ass on the subject. just that i've never had a gf like that sort before.


cheers.

any ideas, advice or insights will be greatly appreciated. thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lost In Translation

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my guess

1. she has options
2. she is getting her male attention elsewhere


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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Some girls are more secure like this. Do you want a girlfriend who wants to be around you more of the time? Then you should probably find a new one.
 
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