Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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gf happy not spending too much time with me.

jakeyboy

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hey mates.

my girlfriend is a tad queer. usually my previous girlfriends would be all upset when i can't spend much time with them, but this time it's different.

we're in the same uni but hardly see each other during weekdays. is that abnormal? she's usually hanging with her mates and i with mine cos our timetables clash sometimes.

but even when she's got some free time or we end school at similar hours she doesn't take the initiative to ask me if i wanna hang with her.

so we usually spend time with each other over the weekend.

pardon me if i'm sounding like an ass on the subject. just that i've never had a gf like that sort before.


cheers.

any ideas, advice or insights will be greatly appreciated. thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lost In Translation

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my guess

1. she has options
2. she is getting her male attention elsewhere


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Some girls are more secure like this. Do you want a girlfriend who wants to be around you more of the time? Then you should probably find a new one.
 
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