Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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GF handles everything weirdly...

illmatic1005

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A lot of time when i talk to my GF, do some C&F, and whatever, i hate the way she handles everything.

for example if i say.. 'if i dont get a massage in return, then i wont blah blah blah" and she'll just say 'shucks (sarcastically)", 'oh ok', or just 'oh" like she doesnt care...and this is with like EVERYTHING i say.

or if i try to tell her something she'll just say "oh", once again sarcastically

and whenever she says that i just dont kno what to do

so how do u handle it when a girl does this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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steve12b

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She realizes that you're controlling and wants to return the favor. It hurts doesn't it? I don't have any advice.
 

Johnny_Kage

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That doesn't sound like C&F at all. That sounds like you're threatening her (aka being a ****). Besides, you don't have to use C&F in this situation. If she wants a massage, give her one. Then say (smiling) "My turn!" or kiss her and say "Now you do me."
 
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