"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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GF handles everything weirdly...

illmatic1005

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A lot of time when i talk to my GF, do some C&F, and whatever, i hate the way she handles everything.

for example if i say.. 'if i dont get a massage in return, then i wont blah blah blah" and she'll just say 'shucks (sarcastically)", 'oh ok', or just 'oh" like she doesnt care...and this is with like EVERYTHING i say.

or if i try to tell her something she'll just say "oh", once again sarcastically

and whenever she says that i just dont kno what to do

so how do u handle it when a girl does this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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steve12b

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She realizes that you're controlling and wants to return the favor. It hurts doesn't it? I don't have any advice.
 

Johnny_Kage

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That doesn't sound like C&F at all. That sounds like you're threatening her (aka being a ****). Besides, you don't have to use C&F in this situation. If she wants a massage, give her one. Then say (smiling) "My turn!" or kiss her and say "Now you do me."
 
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