"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok.. so I heard through the grapevine that my GF thinks I'm "kind of boring." Now, assuming this is true... what the fvck? I always try to start up conversations with her.. and well she doesn't really make much effort. What gives?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she prably wants something new, not materialistic, but you know in the relationship, either that, or shes just trying to act hard with her friends bro. judge by how she reacts when shes with you to whether its A or B.
 

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Be spontaneous and break up with her. LoL

Nah, I'm kidding...but you might have some trouble if that's true. If she thinks you're boring then you're only a few steps away from getting dumped. Take her out, do something unexpected, have fun. If she still thinks you're boring then there's really not much you can do.

Whatever you do, do it quick.
 

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Props for listening to marvin gaye :).



The problem may be one of a few things -

-You are too nice to her
-You are too quite
-You are too predictable

More likely than not, since you've said she doesn't put in effort, it is her fault as well. Obviously shes not a keeper, but in the meantime, do some wild stuff. Grab her by the ass one day and kiss her passionately. Give her some stuff to rub her pvssy to afterwards. Bring up some convo topics that will involve both of you.

Giving a little less respect, in your situation, will be benefitial.
 

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Yeah I'm kind of a quiet guy sometimes. I grab her ass and kiss her passionatly like every time I see her. I may just have to speak whats on my mind more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Striking up conversations doesn't make you not boring.

Doing something fun as much as possible does.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Ok.. so I heard through the grapevine that my GF thinks I'm "kind of boring." Now, assuming this is true... what the fvck? I always try to start up conversations with her.. and well she doesn't really make much effort. What gives?
Maybe you're boring! Go do something exciting, and if you think she's wrong -- dump her ass!
 
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