GF going to College next year

[B-Lemond]

So I've been seen this girl for about 5 months and she's going to go to IVY LEAGUE next year. I'm going to be in my junior year in hs. Anyway, I was wondering what you guys would do in this situation. 1) Should I break up with her and if so how? I don't think I want to have a "long distance relationship" cause then I'm just not gonna getting any without being unfaithful. The advantages of staying in touch might be that I'd have connections to a great college. So what should I do?

 

[Sammo]

Break up, say because its not going to work - because it wont man.

Seriously man, your too young for this ****, just have some fun while your young. You shouldnt even be concerned with LTR's at tha moment anyway.

 

[undesputable]

shes probably going to break up with you before she goes, so you better beat her to it.

 

[B-Lemond]

I REALLY doubt that she'd even consider breaking up. She probably thinks it might work out cause one of her best friends was having a relationship while the boyfriend was away at college. Anyway, you guys are saying that I should break up, but I don't know how. How should I do it?

 

[Sammo]

I've allready answered that question.

Tell her: It wont work with the two of you being so far apart.

 

[B-Lemond]

I made this girl squirt and no one has ever given her an orgasm like that or probably ever will. Obviously she's not going to dump me if I'm the only one that has ever made her fell this way.

 

[LikRetsam]

Step 1: Kid posting about his problems.

Step 2: Advice given by senior posters.

Step 3: Complete disregard of given advice.

Step 4: Act like OP wants more advice while clearly showing he couldn't give a flying hoot.

Enough time wasted.

 

[Vincent]

a year is a long time dude

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Step 1: Kid posting about his problems.

Step 2: Advice given by senior posters.

Step 3: Complete disregard of given advice.

Step 4: Act like OP wants more advice while clearly showing he couldn't give a flying hoot.

Enough time wasted.

Thank you for that useless piece of ****!

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by bluelemond
Thank you for that useless piece of ****!

He's right dude, Get over it.

 

[October]

Step 1: Kid posting about his problems.

Step 2: Advice given by senior posters.

Step 3: Complete disregard of given advice.

Step 4: Act like OP wants more advice while clearly showing he couldn't give a flying hoot.

Enough time wasted.

That wasn't useless. Isn't that what you did?

And...I don't know if this is what you meant, but having a girlfriend at an Ivy League college will not better your chances of acceptance.

 

[B-Lemond]

*bump*

 

[Stratocaster]

That college long distance relationship stuff is crap man. It DOES NOT WORK. It is not worth it, and it is not healthy. You're a junior in high school, where the girls are simple. Enjoy your time.

I garuntee you once your girl goes to her Ivy League school shes gonna find some new hot shot and will forget about you. It doesnt matter if you gave her the best orgasm ever. I've seen it happen with girls that are more whipped than yours is. They meet a new guy and their old boyfriend is just that...an old boyfriend.

It is not worth it, if you decide not to break up with her, you are making a big mistake. And it will be one of those 'we told you so' situations.

In order to break up, you have to sound real mature, no bull****. Tell her

1) Long distance relationships never work out in college
2) You don't want to hold her back from persuing her dreams
3) It will be better for both of us in the long run


She's not gonna like it, and she will probably beg you not to do it. But trust me, you have to do it. Now...whether or not shes a little tap on the side is up to you lol.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by Stratocaster
That college long distance relationship stuff is crap man. It DOES NOT WORK. It is not worth it, and it is not healthy. You're a junior in high school, where the girls are simple. Enjoy your time.

I garuntee you once your girl goes to her Ivy League school shes gonna find some new hot shot and will forget about you. It doesnt matter if you gave her the best orgasm ever. I've seen it happen with girls that are more whipped than yours is. They meet a new guy and their old boyfriend is just that...an old boyfriend.

It is not worth it, if you decide not to break up with her, you are making a big mistake. And it will be one of those 'we told you so' situations.

In order to break up, you have to sound real mature, no bull****. Tell her

1) Long distance relationships never work out in college
2) You don't want to hold her back from persuing her dreams
3) It will be better for both of us in the long run


She's not gonna like it, and she will probably beg you not to do it. But trust me, you have to do it. Now...whether or not shes a little tap on the side is up to you lol.

Thanks for the advice. (by the way she might think that these relationships work out because one of her best friends did it this year with a college guy and it lasted almost the whole year, the relationship that is.) This is what I'm thinking of doing...so let me know what you guys think, especially you stratocoaster cause your the only one that has given me good advice so far.

I might pull the LJBF line on her. Tell her what Stratocoaster says, i'll be holding her back, it won't work out, etc. Then when she comes and visits when can hang out/ hook up or whatever. Then I might tell her that once I get in college we can pick things up again. That last one may be a little to AFC. I really don't want to NEVER see her again. It's not because I'm attached and I can't be seperated from her or anything AFC like that, it's cause she is one of the smartest students that has ever gone to our private high school, and I need to learn some of her ways. (ex. learn how to write A++++ papers like her) By the way I got her to do most of my paper, threatening that I wasn't going to go to her graduation party, just to give you some more in depth in this situation.

SO WHAT DO YO GUYS THINK?

 

[Stratocaster]

Yeah, the point I'm making is that having a hardcore committed relationship isn't going to work out. Being friends isn't a bad thing, and hanging out when she comes home for holidays is cool. But if you meet another girl in high school you should not pass up the chance. And by continuing friendship, you have to be ready to accept the fact that she will find another guy sometime in the future.

Although her friend might be in one that is working...for now...I am willing to bet that at some point one or the other will cheat on or find another partner.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by Stratocaster
Yeah, the point I'm making is that having a hardcore committed relationship isn't going to work out. Being friends isn't a bad thing, and hanging out when she comes home for holidays is cool. But if you meet another girl in high school you should not pass up the chance. And by continuing friendship, you have to be ready to accept the fact that she will find another guy sometime in the future.

Although her friend might be in one that is working...for now...I am willing to bet that at some point one or the other will cheat on or find another partner.

Thanks stratocaster you made think a lot more clear*

 

[Centaurion]

what the hell?

What do want to achieve with a ltr?

Let's break it down.

Pro's :
- uhmmm... you have a gf that goes to an Ivy Leauge College

Con's :
- she goes to an Ivy League College
- she's 22421213123123 miles away
- you'll visit her twice a month, if not less
- you have to spend ****loads of money to get there
- phonebill goes up
- you won't get laid
- she'll turn into a femi-nazi-lesbian
- you'll miss out on hotties at your HS


Thats just some pro's and con's at the top of my head.

Plus, she'll probably hook up with a college dude, cause serioulsy, do you really think that she'll want to hang out with a juniour in HS when she's a freshman at COLLEGE!!?? No way sir. She'll probably jump on the first college senior c*ck that comes along her way.


just my 2 cents. You do as you wish.


edit. and yeah, blackmailing a chick to write your paper is retarded.

 

[S-lemond]

Stick with her

Stay in touch....but in a friendly way....get her to invite you up...intoduce you to some big ppl! and loose her!

 

[Sammo]

To the original poster. You obviously want to stay with her. I gave you the best advice in that situation. Lik showed us the reality of the situation, yet you still want advice?

Seriously, your ***** whipped, your not breaking up with her. Just face the facts that your desperate. The sooner you do that, the sooner you can get over the suffering of being in a Long distance, long term, relationship.

Who cares what you SAY to her. Your never going to see her again. Say someone killed your cat and you have feelings for her mum so you cant be in a relationship with her right now - who gives a ****.

.... have fun with that. All i offered was the truth.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by Sammo


Who cares what you SAY to her. Your never going to see her again. Say someone killed your cat and you have feelings for her mum so you cant be in a relationship with her right now - who gives a ****.

hahahahhaha