I guess I've had my first tiff wiith my girlfriend this week.
To sum up, she called me the weekend to see if I would be around on Wednesday. I told her yes I should be. I didn't speak to her after that, but assumed if she was going to visit me she would call me to let me know since it's a 2hr drive for her.
On Wednesday I had to go into Uni. While I was there my gf sent me a message telling me she would see me in 10 minutes. Unfortunately I wasn't able to get away from Uni and told her I wouldn't be free for a few hours. I couldn't even call and tell her because I was in a lecture so I said this by text message, which was somewhat cold and abrupt.
I am guessing she went home, but she has ignored me since then and won't answer the phone. I don't believe I'm entirely in the wrong, but I can definitely see why she would be annoyed and upset.
Now I'm in a dilemma about whether to explain and apologise and risk appearing wussy, or to play it indifferent and risk appearing cold.
Advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
To sum up, she called me the weekend to see if I would be around on Wednesday. I told her yes I should be. I didn't speak to her after that, but assumed if she was going to visit me she would call me to let me know since it's a 2hr drive for her.
On Wednesday I had to go into Uni. While I was there my gf sent me a message telling me she would see me in 10 minutes. Unfortunately I wasn't able to get away from Uni and told her I wouldn't be free for a few hours. I couldn't even call and tell her because I was in a lecture so I said this by text message, which was somewhat cold and abrupt.
I am guessing she went home, but she has ignored me since then and won't answer the phone. I don't believe I'm entirely in the wrong, but I can definitely see why she would be annoyed and upset.
Now I'm in a dilemma about whether to explain and apologise and risk appearing wussy, or to play it indifferent and risk appearing cold.
Advice would be appreciated. Thanks.