"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GF gets drunk, texts me, "I cant see you ne more"

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GF gets drunk, texts me, "I cant see you ne more"
I text her back... "k, well its been fun, good luck with life, bye"
She replies... "Bye, I miss you"

Next morning she calls me,
"I'm sorry I didn't mean it"
I laughed at her... told her i had two dates this weekend already set up.
She immediately wants to come over and "talk about it in person"
I say... "well if your at my doorstep when I get home from work, I guess I'll have to let you in..."

I vote to stay single, keep telling her we might get back together...
And basically use her...

Anyone else have a girlfriend that would get drunk and break up with ya?
lmao
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LMAO! thats hilarious!!! HAAHAHHAAHA!!!

no... but i know a similar thing that happened to me... and other people too... FUNNY!

i vote for you to stay single now and use her (don't do it to the point where she'll realize that she CAN'T see you anymore).

"Bye, I miss you"... HAAHAH... what is that? she misses you a few minutes after saying she can't see you anymore?

where was she drunk at? a party?
 
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well you know she broke up with you like that most likely because some friend of hers made her do it.

or she was about to hook up with a guy and did not want to be a cheater HAHA.

Too bad she is still a hor though.

But my friend, I am proud of you because you handled this perfectly. Definitely use her now, use her however you want........sexually, emotionally, doesn't matter. And you better have 2 dates lined up, that better not have been a lie! lol cuz you SHOULD go line dates up

how long were you with her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Excuse the pun, but you 'Scorched' her lol well done mate.
 

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Hilarious. if she's that immature then she doesnt need a bf. and u dont need her messin up your flow either. she deserved that and probably thought you would go all AFC and beg for her back, but boy was she wrong lol!

nicely handled :up:
 

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Answer to the questions then update.

Been seeing her around 8 months, I'd see her twice a week when she was in town for school, she'd pay for most her meals, it worked out great... I've learned a lot though, especially being that she is 2 years older... She was a true challenge.

Last night I over slept past our date. I work nights... So when I got out of bed I was like 2 1/2 hours past the time she normally comes over. I had 3 missed calls. I call her back. She is at home and clearly had a few drinks... We talk about how I over slept and didn't stand her up. But she was convenced I had stood her up. Then I get the text.. "I cant see you ne more"

Update*
So this morning I get home... Ignored her calls... She is parked right out side of my apartment and basically follows me in. She constantly pushes and pushes. Saying what ever she can do get me back. Like... "I didn't mean the text" "It was an accident" "Change your myspace back to in a relationship" (LMAO) "Please take me back" "Do you not want to be with me anymore?" Mostly I didn't answer her, just laughed. So eventually she starts crying and THEN... She tells me she loves me for the first time... I didn't say ****... So I got in my boxers and went to bed. She curled up on my next to me. I put her hand on my c*ck and then 5 mins later pushed her head down. Yes, the head was good... I told her thanks for the -Make up head- ... yeah... So then I slept 6 hours and ****ed her when I got out of bed. Showered and now she is out getting dinner and a few things I need from the store...

Well I am on crutches from a skiing accidnet. So I had a valid reason to cancel a double date I had tonight. Besides it will make this other girl want me that much more...

Thanks guys, Later
 

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Kudos to you Scorched. You seem like a natural DJ the way you handled the situation so smoothly. Really text book stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if she did break up with you just so she could hook up with some other guy, then don't take that h0r back !
 

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if she did break up with you just so she could hook up with some other guy, then don't take that h0r back !
I think she broke up because he agreed to meet her and slept right through it.

I, for example, am one of those people who get remarkably pissed when people have me clear my schedule and get ready to go somewhere, then they pass out/get too stoned/change their minds without bothering to tell me.

You can ease back into a relationship if she keeps being nice, but remember, you can't keep her enthralled if you're too tired and busy to see her.
 

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Phyzzle said:
I think she broke up because he agreed to meet her and slept right through it.

I, for example, am one of those people who get remarkably pissed when people have me clear my schedule and get ready to go somewhere, then they pass out/get too stoned/change their minds without bothering to tell me.
Yeah but do you fly into a "i'll get them" rage and do something you regret or do you act adult?
 

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but if the guy was with her for so long she shouldve had the capacity to be more understanding. he overslept it wasnt on purpose..it wasnt like. ima sleep alittle bit more so that i can piss her off..she was very out of line and the guy did the right thing
 
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Scorched said:
GF gets drunk, texts me, "I cant see you no more"
Are you saying that she went blind because she drank too much??:confused: :confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yeah but do you fly into a "i'll get them" rage and do something you regret or do you act adult?
NOW I would act like an adult. Back when I was a drunk 19 year old, like this chick, nope. I would have had a hissy fit.
 

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Woa!!! that is truly a man who knows his worth and keeps his composture. Props to you!

PS: Why did she send the first txt tho? was she about to hook up with some guy? if she did then **** her...she obviosuly didnt take you seriously

LOL @ Last Man Standing
 

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Good to see a positive thread in this forum for a change. Scorched, you rule! :)
 

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Scorched said:
Then I get the text.. "I cant see you ne more"

Update*
So this morning I get home... Ignored her calls... She is parked right out side of my apartment and basically follows me in. She constantly pushes and pushes. Saying what ever she can do get me back. Like... "I didn't mean the text" "It was an accident" "Change your myspace back to in a relationship" (LMAO) "Please take me back" "Do you not want to be with me anymore?" Mostly I didn't answer her, just laughed. So eventually she starts crying and THEN... She tells me she loves me for the first time... I didn't say ****... So I got in my boxers and went to bed. She curled up on my next to me. I put her hand on my c*ck and then 5 mins later pushed her head down. Yes, the head was good... I told her thanks for the -Make up head- ... yeah... So then I slept 6 hours and ****ed her when I got out of bed. Showered and now she is out getting dinner and a few things I need from the store...
^^I envy you. I need to get myself a sugarmama. lol!
Well, as long as she's gonna keep playing wifey and running to the store, doing your laundry and s.hit, I'd take her back. Thats assuming she just broke up with you in a moment of drunken stupidity (we all do it) and not to f.uck some other dude. But I'd definitely impose a no more alcohol rule for her. lol!
 

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Scorched said:
Answer to the questions then update.

Been seeing her around 8 months, I'd see her twice a week when she was in town for school, she'd pay for most her meals, it worked out great... I've learned a lot though, especially being that she is 2 years older... She was a true challenge.

Last night I over slept past our date. I work nights... So when I got out of bed I was like 2 1/2 hours past the time she normally comes over. I had 3 missed calls. I call her back. She is at home and clearly had a few drinks... We talk about how I over slept and didn't stand her up. But she was convenced I had stood her up. Then I get the text.. "I cant see you ne more"

Update*
So this morning I get home... Ignored her calls... She is parked right out side of my apartment and basically follows me in. She constantly pushes and pushes. Saying what ever she can do get me back. Like... "I didn't mean the text" "It was an accident" "Change your myspace back to in a relationship" (LMAO) "Please take me back" "Do you not want to be with me anymore?" Mostly I didn't answer her, just laughed. So eventually she starts crying and THEN... She tells me she loves me for the first time... I didn't say ****... So I got in my boxers and went to bed. She curled up on my next to me. I put her hand on my c*ck and then 5 mins later pushed her head down. Yes, the head was good... I told her thanks for the -Make up head- ... yeah... So then I slept 6 hours and ****ed her when I got out of bed. Showered and now she is out getting dinner and a few things I need from the store...

Well I am on crutches from a skiing accidnet. So I had a valid reason to cancel a double date I had tonight. Besides it will make this other girl want me that much more...

Thanks guys, Later


Great Job your playing it perfect. Never let no girl disprespect you like that. Your the man in the relationship. I am going to give you rep points for this. You are the prize.

The funny thing is if you were an AFC and kissed her azz she wouldn't be kissing your azz like that.

Woman want men not a pu$$y azz AFC. I guarantee she will not pull that sh1t again. I would still tread carefully with her. I would not become emotionally attached to a girl like this..


A girl who truly loves you will not dare say something like we can't be together. Do whatever you want with her. Fvck her in the azz. Fvck her best friend. Show her who the boss is..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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