GF gets butthurt.. smh

[Jair213]

When she messages me in the mornings its reasonable. She tells me to have a good day etc, and I do too. If she tells me something following that and I dont respond till later at night or the afternoon she seems to get butthurt. The thing is I dont want to be texting all the time even if im not busy.

I think she expects me to reply right away or atleast a couple of minutes later.

She even tells me. Oh ''your the only person that I always talk to first, you should be glad''

I dont say anything to that I just change the subject etc. But I do contact her first but she does it most of the time.

I dont need to be talking to her all the time.(if yall know wat i mean)

Im not playing hard to get or playing any stupid games.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

So let her be butthurt then. She needs to get used to the idea that you won't always be reachable. She may SAY she doesn't like it, but it's only because it's making her realize how much she wants you around her, which can only help to increase her interest level. So, keep doing what you do - eventually she'll get the hint and (hopefully) not be so peeved that she's not hearing back from you right away all the time.

 

[Jair213]

So let her be butthurt then. She needs to get used to the idea that you won't always be reachable. She may SAY she doesn't like it, but it's only because it's making her realize how much she wants you around her, which can only help to increase her interest level. So, keep doing what you do - eventually she'll get the hint and (hopefully) not be so peeved that she's not hearing back from you right away all the time.

thanks bro will keep that in mind

 

[Sofomore]

Yea on the surface she wants you to be a little b!tch and respond all the time right away, but deep down she doesn't want a man with nothing else going on in his life but his girl. Lots of guys here (myself included) have fallen into this trap, and the story ends in getting dumped on your ass.

Just keep doing what you're doing and if it really becomes a problem just sit her down and explain that you have things going on in your life. If she keeps it up after being real with her, then you need to seriously consider if you want to be with such an insecure girl.