gf friends try to make her a slut

[mexican_player2]

hey yo', my gf and i have been going out for 7 months, she is very nice and treat me like a king, i am not a jealous type of guy, but lately my gf has been hanging out with a SLUT and she is trying to get my gf to cheat on me by inviting her to the club and bars and drink a lot, my gf told me the slut invited her to the club to get some ass which my gf refused and didnt go.

My gf is a nice girl from a good family, she didnt drink until now that she is hanging out with that rotten apple.

Yesterday i told her that ***** was going to bring her a lot of problems and chit, which she said i didnt have to worry because she doesnt want to be like her etc.

i think if she keeps hanging out with that ***** then she sooner or later will become like her.

what do u guys think i should handle this??

 

[itishe]

Let me tell you a story:

I once was a friend with a guy who would never drink. Not a drop ever. His sister was a heavy drinker and smoked pot and I guess he just didn't want to go that way. His friends were heavily anti-alcohol as many of them still are, while a few have converted.

Eventually he became friends with a douche bag, they became boyfriends pretty much and eventually this nutsack convinced my old pal to start drinking. After that he now drinks 3-4 days out of the week.


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For clarification, I don't hate the kid because he got my old bud to drink, I hate him because he's a douche bag who thinks he's hot ****. I drink myself.

Eventually your girlfriend will crack if she's weak.

 

[mexican_player2]

damn man, sorry about your pal, well my gf is weak (in some aspects) i think the hoe will crack her thats why im afraid, but the way i see it is that i dont care if she becomes like the ho, but i dont want to wait for that process until she dumps me.

the hoe wants my gf to drink heavily, party and lots of sex (she is nothing like that) but i can see it now that she starting to be more like that.

right now what im doing is that im developing my mackin skills and trying to better myself. im being more social and sometimes i sarge, so that way when we break up i would have my skills trump tight and more girls on my stable

ps. im only 20, she is 19.
the way girls are in mexico are very different than in the US, like here (mex) lots of girls are very conservative with strong family values, only the hoes drink and have sex with guys that dont know etc.

 

[wayword]

Yesterday i told her that ***** was going to bring her a lot of problems and chit, which she said i didnt have to worry because she doesnt want to be like her etc.

Uh, if she don't want to be like her...then why does she keep hangin' out with her?

Look, going out clubbing alone or for "Hors Night Out" is a clear warning sign. Your gf is headed for skanksville! Slootishness is HIGHLY contagious, my friend! :yes:

 

[Raikojo17]

dude stop bein so paraniod

if she has enough respect for you then she wont crack and become a hor. just because she hangs around this girl doesnt mean that she likes her lifestyle and wants to be like her. there could be something else there that they have in common and that she likes about her. i dont like the things my friends do, and im nowhere near becoming like them and they have tried to convince me. but they are still friends, and i stick with them.

but if she does, then just get rid of her. show her that she made a mistake.

 

[samueladams]

Uh, if she don't want to be like her...then why does she keep hangin' out with her?

Look, going out clubbing alone or for "Hors Night Out" is a clear warning sign. Your gf is headed for skanksville! Slootishness is HIGHLY contagious, my friend! :yes:

Indeed...let her party b/c holding a chick back only messes crap up but you gotta ask yourself why does she wanna hang out w/this chick in the 1st place?

 

[itishe]

Tell her you don't like her aswell. See what she does, if you don't like her reaction, get rid of her. Like you said you live in Mexico and you could find a nice conservative girl since there's so many of them.

 

[mexican_player2]

i told her that i didnt like her hanging out with that hoe and she said that she liked her because she was fun to be with but she said she didnt wanted to be nothing like her. She told me not to worry etc.

But still thats what she says now... you know how you cant trust girls, they say they'll love you and next day they will be cheating on you.

i know she is heading to a bad path, i just dont want to wait until she becomes a *****, but also i cant cut her off because right now she treats me like a KING and i dont know with precision if she will become a hoe and cheat on me.

 

[ryannath]

Let me tell you a story. There was this married woman one time, who also liked to go to clubs, and she told me that she "loved" her husband and she didn't wanna ruin things with him, but later on that night, she was sucking and fvcking me. Actions, not words, my friend.

 

[DarthJuan]

A friend use to date this plain-looking, quiet, wallflower. She basically didn't have much of a dating or social life before he met her.

He found out later that when her and her gf's would go out and party...they were hooking up with other dudes. And they would all cover for each other.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Let me tell you a story. There was this married woman one time, who also liked to go to clubs, and she told me that she "loved" her husband and she didn't wanna ruin things with him, but later on that night, she was sucking and fvcking me. Actions, not words, my friend.

This has happened to me a few times, I don't know why, as I am always honest about what I want from a woman right from the beginning.

 

[Rata Blanca]

problems and chit

I just love it when you said 'chit' man :crackup:

I guess what you could do is get read to ler her go if necesary.

sobre tu novia...
"El que con lobos anda, a aullar aprende"

 

[MacDiddy]

mex: just let life take its course. curiosity will eventually lead her down the $lutty course with which you can do very little about. Sure she treats you well, don't worry... just enjoy it...

So what if she becomes a $lut... thats her loss and you have no time to be her teacher. You are young and you must be a learner. so learn here on DJ forum and be a better man... that way when you are 30+ and rich and successful, you can afford to marry a younger women, say 23 (which I think is a decent gap ) and she won't get ugly too fast.

 

[wayword]

dude stop bein so paraniod

Quit being so naive.

We all see and read about this pattern time and again. Just read all the posts above this one. It's predictable as bear shyt in the woods. It's only a matter of time now before...

"But but *sob* I wasn't planning on cheating, it just happened...and I was so drunk! *waahhhhhh*"

Which is only if she gets caught - which likely she won't...

 

[mexican_player2]

thanks a lot for y'all help i really apreciate it.

This thing is messing me up, my confidence is going down.


yeah prob she will become a hoe but how can i caught her if she is cheating or things like that?? right now im blind and cant see things straight because i like her a lot.

 

[Raikojo17]

Quit being so naive.

We all see and read about this pattern time and again. Just read all the posts above this one. It's predictable as bear shyt in the woods. It's only a matter of time now before...

"But but *sob* I wasn't planning on cheating, it just happened...and I was so drunk! *waahhhhhh*"

Which is only if she gets caught - which likely she won't...

im not bein naive. just stating fact. all women are not slvts, and if his girl truley loves him then she wont cheat on him.

im just saying you guys need to stop all this worrying like little girls about something that hasnt even happened yet. seriously

"omg she's conna turn into a slvt!! on oh!! what will i do!? that...that's it, ill just worry about it now and get mad at her before hand, and then ill dump her before she gets the chance to cheat on me!!" oh man this is gonna be sweet!! I'll show her!!"

do you know how chumpish that sounds? unless you have tale tale signs that she is unfaithful, you dont need to worry about it. if you know she's cheating, then just dump her for a better girl, simple as that. all this worrying gets nobody nowhere.

 

[itishe]

God ****ing damnit, listen to me Mexican. Get rid of her. If she is hurting your confidence and you're paranoid, it's not worth your trouble!

 

[Last Man Standing]

No one can make another a hor!!! It is by her own doing -- if you are sexing her then she is a Ho already!!!!

 

[ryannath]

mexican, I just wanna tell you that that married woman i was talking about in my post that cheated on her hubby, her hubby NEVER found out about our one night stand while he was 2 hours away for his job...

 

[mexican_player2]

whats up everybody, thanks for all the replies i really apreciate it.

well i just talked to her and i explained her everything, how the hoe was gonna fuk this relationship and stuff.

She told me that i made her realized a lot of things since last talk and she told me that she didnt want to be like that etc etc an she told me that she was cutting all contact from that hoe. she gave me her word, she told me she was chaning her character and didnt want to be nothing like that.

she was very glad i told her all this stuff. everything is fine...for now...