gf found on myspace

[montybrown]

I found my girlfriend on myspace and I confronted her about it. Then all of a sudden someone sent her a message and this guy has like 3 pages worth of women on his friends list. Well, basically she thinks it's me but it's not. She keeps asking me "Tell the truth! This is you!" she even said she responded to him saying "I know you're my boyfriend stop stalking me! etc etc"

The thing is this person isn't me and she just won't believe me. What do I do? I really hate the fact she's on MySpace in the first place seeing as it's just a place to flirt and cheat anyway, anyone who says they're on there to meet up with old friends are full of **** IMO.

Now she's keeping me on the phone 4+ hours a day so she knows everything I do, man this is annoying. If I say I want to get off the phone it's like "NO, you're not"...When I shower I have to make her hold on I can't hang up. Jesus christ. Help.

 

[mroriginal]

Shes trying to switch and put the blame on you when really WTF is she doing there in the first place.she has no reason to be mad at you,but you do.shes a f**KED UP *****.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

She's stringing you along while she probes for better prospects. Now that she's been found out, she's gonna try and trun the tables on you.

I'm not much for saying this, but.... "Drop the bytch"

Teach her a lesson, cause she isn't innocent if she's dealing with guys on myspace

 

[djuno]

wow she sounds like a control freak you should drop her dont take that sh!t...have a little more control over her dont let her tell you what to do you should say" Babe i am getting off the phone...i am really busy i wil call you later".

The fact that shes on myspace shows that she has low intrest in you and you should eject her.

 

[montybrown]

she was on myspace for 2 months before I even found out and when I found her out her excuse was "I was only on there to see if you were on there and now I know you do go on there since you found me!" then she claims that she only added people she knew from middle school/high school and people she knew which is BS because there was a bunch of guys on there I didn't even know!

Back in February of 05 I made a MySpace account posing as a girl.. posting fake pics as a girl and acting like a female, etc the reason I did this was to PROVE and SHOW people what really happens on there, that within 2 days I got 60+ messages in my inbox from people I didn't even know. She uses this against me like I'm guilty for doing it. But as for myself, I would never ever post blogs and have a my space site for myself because it just doesn't interest me and I rather meet my women in person not online, but that's just me.

 

[seanchai]

Originally posted by djuno
wow she sounds like a control freak you should drop her dont take that sh!t...have a little more control over her dont let her tell you what to do you should say" Babe i am getting off the phone...i am really busy i wil call you later".

The fact that shes on myspace shows that she has low intrest in you and you should eject her.

SHE sounds like a control freak? Man, your girlfriend is on MYSPACE, not some other dude's c0ck. Calm down. She does sound crazy, though.

 

[mroriginal]

Back in February of 05 I made a MySpace account posing as a girl.. posting fake pics as a girl and acting like a female

heh thats funny

 

[MightyMate]

LOL

 

[BrotherAP]

MySpace is not a dating service, just some people use it as that. To be honest, most people I know have never met someone of the opposite sex off of MySpace.

You are blowing this way out of porportion.

Hell, my best friend talked me into signing up for one when I was in a LTR with my ex because we were both moving to different places and he wanted a good way to keep in touch. I then found a lot of people who I hadn't seen in a while and I don't think I ever mentioned it to my GF at the time. It just didn't seem that significant.

So calm down. Just because she has a myspace account doesn't mean anything.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Teach her a lesson, cause she isn't innocent if she's dealing with guys on myspace

Good lord. It may come as a shock but girls like attention. Myspace gives them a spot that makes them feel "important"... like other people actually give two sh*ts about their little lives. I love it when generalizations are made about an entire sex based on the simple fact that they visit a website. I wonder what someone might say about those of us on here?

Originally posted by montybrown
Back in February of 05 I made a MySpace account posing as a girl.. She uses this against me like I'm guilty for doing it.

The only thing you're guilty of is doing something really strange and abnormal. It sounds like you need to work on your self-confidence.

 

[TxCowboy]

Be grateful she's getting her extra attention on the d@mn web and not some guys c0ck from a bar on a GNO. Whatever u do, please dont ask her for her user/pass to monitor her messages and sh1t like that ...

-Laterz

 

[penkitten]

you cant stay on the phone while you shower
she has to grow up and let you off the phone
if you are still in highschool, tell her your mom said you cant tie the lines up all the time

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by diablo
Good lord. It may come as a shock but girls like attention. Myspace gives them a spot that makes them feel "important"... like other people actually give two sh*ts about their little lives. I love it when generalizations are made about an entire sex based on the simple fact that they visit a website. I wonder what someone might say about those of us on here?

he's absolutely right..... most girls on myspace don't care about hooking up.
They're ATTENTION *****S!!!

If you ask me. You should look @ her dating status and see if it says single or not.


p.s.
I go to myspace to reunite w/ old friends thank you very much

 

[Swoop]

I dont get the reason for joining myspace "to reunite with friends". Isnt that what emails is for and instant messenger? I think as soon as the word got out the people uses myspace to hook up, everyone jump on it and say "I'm just there to reunite with friends" but we know the real reasons haha. maybe i'm wrong but that's the impression I get.

When I reunite with friends, I dont go online to do it, it still feels very distant. If I can't see them in person and hang out, I'll call them on the phone. That's just me, carry on.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Swoop
I dont get the reason for joining myspace "to reunite with friends". Isnt that what emails is for and instant messenger?

what if its someone who's e-mail u don't have or you can't find.

(In which case they wouldn't really be your friend. Just an acquintance.)

 

[Swoop]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
what if its someone who's e-mail u don't have or you can't find.

(In which case they wouldn't really be your friend. Just an acquintance.)

so what you are saying is you use myspace to reunite with your acquintance? Since if they are your friends, you should have their emails, screenname and also their real phone #s.

 

[DJ_in_making]

pretty much. U know u have the close circle. Then the ones you didn't hang out w/ that much... But I still wanna see what's up w/ 'em.

 

[Swoop]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
pretty much. U know u have the close circle. Then the ones you didn't hang out w/ that much... But I still wanna see what's up w/ 'em.

When you first contact them on myspace, you should say "Hey, what are you doing on this site, you pervert!" haha j/k

But you have to admit, the way that site is set up , it's very much like a dating site, with profiles and interests and what they are looking for.

btw, when ever I need to find an acquintance, I usually know someone in my inner circle knows. So I would call someone up and ask them if they have so and so email. usually works for me.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Swoop
When you first contact them on myspace, you should say "Hey, what are you doing on this site, you pervert!" haha j/k

But you have to admit, the way that site is set up , it's very much like a dating site, with profiles and interests and what they are looking for.

btw, when ever I need to find an acquintance, I usually know someone in my inner circle knows. So I would call someone up and ask them if they have so and so email. usually works for me.

No doubt. I try to talk to chicks on myspace as well. But it's that feeling. Like if you're ever going away, everyone might get sad and ask for your phone number and stuff. But when they finally have it, they never call u or anything b.c. they "Can call u anytime".
It just cool to know all your high school acquaintances are @ your fingertips.

 

[escobar04]

Originally posted by mroriginal
heh thats funny

GOLD hahaha