"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GF ex is driving her crazy..

ricodragos

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Been with this girl for 1month now, dont really care about her emotionaly .. but i like the cleaning, cooking, sex and want to keep her around.

The thing is, before me she was with a dude(3.5y relationship) and the guy is a total AFC, gave her everything, lost his friends for her AAAAAND ofc she dumped him 3months ago. The guy is still sending her messages, poems, gifts and ****s....
Exemple of sms: "i dont care if you are with him, i just love u so much, and i just want a hug now and then... i wont bother you when you are with him .. i just love u so much that i`m willing to share you ..."

I really feel sorry for this guy, cus i know what is like, but this dude is totally AFC.... no job, no friends, parents died, fat as hell, dirty as pig.... and my girl is totally disgraced by him and wants him to just leave her alone .... but she cant do anything ... cus they live in the same block, knows her schedule, and he keeps calling her, and sms-ing ... MY GIRL ACTUALLY TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS ****ING ME LIKE HELL AND STOP BOTHERING CUS I LOOSE MY ERECTION(she is a *****, i know).

What can i do in this situation, how can i help the poor bastard, how can i make him WANT TO GET RID OF HER .... we all been there, so i feel him .. as you feel him too. HELP?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donking

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you should drop this whor and help the brother out
 

ricodragos

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but she cleans, cook, orals me everytime, take care of me ... like my mom used to:( why would i wanna drop this? i wanna take advantage... u mad bro?
 

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ricodragos said:
but she cleans, cook, orals me everytime, take care of me ... like my mom used to:( why would i wanna drop this? i wanna take advantage... u mad bro?

Your mother used to oral you???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kbomb

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Feed him the red pill, also stop being a douchebag.
 
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