"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gf doesnt want hangout after my trip

joe45

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ok i went on vacation for 2 weeks overseas and during trip my gf facebook me.she had some mad messages like why you dump me and not take me along to your vacation, very drama queen . but after i came back i wanted to see her and hangout and she made excuses like oh we just saw each other just no long ago, has cousin easter party, family day to go victoria.....etc and few times hestiation when i hung out with her.
before the trip was ok but after i came back from my just 12 day trip she seems hesitant in hanging out with me.
you think a gf would be dying to meet her bf after she hasnt seen him for 12 days but no

ok but the thing is she text me lots and if i dont text her back or ignore her text she get mad . so what is this. also she never calls me .
there are also days she doesnt text me one word.like a whole tues no text but usually i get like 10 text a days from her on average. this no text whole day sometimes happens once in a while. hmm like 2xs a month.

so what should i do. should i let her go . i am still gaming other girls since i cant see her but no success.

i pretty much told her tell me when you free and lets hangout and if she doesnt within end of mid may im moving on. i already asked her 4 xs and she dont want hangout and lot of hestiation and excuses.

some ppl say she probably met someone. and who knows . shes kind sly , sneaky person too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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chath

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break contact. see another girl. you let her be in control. she is never supposed to have control. She caged you like a bird.
 

RagingBalls

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I can see you and your gf lacks a bit of communication, it would be an act of courtesy if you would tell her if you plan on going somewhere and not just dissapear. Of course she would feel pissed about your actions, it would be much better if you'll tell her straight that you ain't bringing her for reasons you had. and so goes her reactions after you came home. You disregard her, that's a disrespect on your part.


You and the girl both needs to be fixed :)
 

thunder_god

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I would just sit back and wait for her to contact you again. Don't text or call her again, just wait for her to call or text you. When she does, arrange to see her in person.
 

crazyboy

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hold on she your girlfriend you have ask her when she available to hang out with you wtf. sound like friend benefits or screw buddy to me. And if she your gf why didnt you take her on the trip unless if was bros trip or family trip then i understand. also since she is your gf tell her behind your coming by to see her and if she give you some bs about oh im busy or i dont have time for that you know she bsing you or messing around. i mean she your gf not a plate you shouldnt have put up with that bs. if she mad talk to her about or whatever let it air out. if she on that bs next her and move on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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