GF Doesnt wanna meet dad (did she set me up fo failure?)

[Plain & Simple]

IVe been withthis girl for 9 1/2 months, i have never met her parents only talked to her mom over the phone in 2 ocassions never to the dad or big brother, and i gave the lil brother a ride to work on time. And ive been in her house 2 times in the whole 9months and a half, the rest is always my dads house.

So my dad found out that i was sneaking her in the house for a while back now but he just talked to me about it, he wasng really mad just a lil bit but he told me how he doesnt have a problem with her coming in the house but that, he wants to meet her, so he knows who my gf is.

So i told my girl about it yesterday (the convo with my dad happened on wed) so ok i tell her about it, and then i told her that i think that he saw the 3 toilet papers in the bathroom trash can (we never use that trash can is always empty) and she said that she didn put no papers in it, i told her that yes she did cause she always does that, but she kept denying it and i told her that aint no point on lieing , i dont even care about the papers but just the fact that she always lies about everything.

How the hell she always uses it and so did she this time, cause before she came it was empty and when we left and i came back went to the bathroom it was 3 papers in there.
So i said" you know what do me a favor and dont say that" she said "you do me a favor and leave me alone" and she hung up the phone on me. I called her like 20 times and sent her like 20 messages and 3 voicemails cause it was really messed up (i know it was afc but wateva) she didnt answer to non of them as to now.

So i was thinking did she set me up, like when im in toruble cause of her she just runs away and leaves me in the whole mess, when all she has to do is just meet my dad, for 5 minutes.

This really hurts.
I texted her again this moorning saying that my dad said that he doesnt have a problem at all with her coming over but that he just wants to meet her since she does come to the house and its his house. she still ignoring me and didnt answer.

She was crying on the phone while i told her what my dad told me and then when i told her about the papers she just said that crying and hung up, and hast talk to me since ignoring my 20 calls and messages and few voicemails.

What should i do, Honestly.

 

[Big Eee Zee]

umm... forget about her?

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

Still wasting your life on her,huh?

 

[Plain & Simple]

i know that most of the people are gonna say next her.

But really this situation showed me that she really is not going all out for me, she choose to back up from the problem and leaving me all up in it alone, when i got in the problem cause of her, and SHE can fix it by simply meeting my dad.

Yet she decides to lie and get mad over her own lie at me over 3 toilet papers, wich she knew she put in the trash, as she 90percent of times does. even after i called her literally 20 times and 20 textes and like 4 voicemails.

Im really thinking about leaving her for this one man i really dont care right now. ITs just that im trying to make us work but she is putting no effort on her part.


In this situation, put it like this:

I went in and little by little created a crime with her, and cause of her and cause i really care for her, when police found out about the crime, i let her know about it, and she chose to have nothing to do with it instead of easily fixing it, and have them put me in prison.

Another ex:

I went to a hill with her and cause of her and cause i care for her, but suddenly i slip and now im hanging from the hill by one hand, she decides to turn her back and walk away, when all she has to do is just pull me up from one hand.

Another one : we created a fire together, when the fire got big, she decided to leave the fire with me in it, and then watch me burning in it instead of easily extinguishing it.

 

[Julian]

send her 8 more voicemails and 2 more texts that should do it

 

[Plain & Simple]

Ima take yall advice to the letter this time, cause this girl keeps fukin with me man.

WHAT SHOULD I DO, just straight up let me know and ill do so.

honestly

 

[Create Reality]

How about we supplicate some more?

:flowers: :flowers: :flowers: :flowers: :flowers: :flowers: :flowers: :flowers:

Hahahahahha.

 

[Plain & Simple]

how am i supplicating if anything she should be the one supplicating, but i know how she is , she the type that is just a fukin baby, if u dont approach her shell stay like that for ever.

i called her and txt her so many times to fix this bullsh1t up and thats how she wanna act. How am i wrong here not about the calling and all that, but about her getting mad?

Sh1t am i wrong for wanting her to meet my dad since i simply asked me to an its his house, and am i wrong for calling her in a BBIIIG and obvious yet foolish stupid lie? well for doing that this is what i get, her not talking to me.

 

[Create Reality]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
how am i supplicating if anything she should be the one supplicating, but i know how she is , she the type that is just a fukin baby, if u dont approach her shell stay like that for ever.

Babies need to grow up.

 

[Plain & Simple]

i feel like slaping her for this **** i dont give a fuk if i go to jail

 

[Create Reality]

Chill.

Peace.

 

[Plain & Simple]

i know i know, im not gonna do that, but thats just how i feel inside, cause yall should see this girl, she acts like this perfect little inocent girl, and thats the image that she portraits and everybody that knows her thinks that thats how she is, inocent a good like an angel.

She is totally the opposite, she just acts like that .

 

[brenbaus]

There are only 2 things to do in this situation,

1) Break up with her and start dating other girls

-or-

2) Ignore her until she comes back to you