GF doesnt care anymore

[Reykhel]

It's already over in her mind....she hasn't said the words it's over directly
in words yet......but she's saying it plenty with her actions.

It's again the classic case of the cat playing with the mouse before she kills it.

She'll possibley say it to you when she's built up enough resentment, which is building
up with the lack of disrespect that she's showing you/being allowed to get away with.

It does sound like she's already swung to another branch; the "forgive me" definately sounds
like it's echoing that.

When she doesn't appreciate you/takes you for granted......it's best to withdraw.
Your time....your energy......are valuable. If she doesn't appreciate or respect them she can go to hell.

I say cut her loose. In fact, anyone who disrespects you or attacks your dignity needs to go....

What was it that Brian Tracy said:

Be the CEO of your life: demote, promote and fire as you see fit.

 

[Jetleg]

so i we've talked and she gave me some stupid excuses that she is not used to a relationship and all that kind of crap. i said fine lets breakup - but she went crazy about it and didn't even want to think about it, i told her she has to make it up to me.

we'll, it has gotten better, but she is still ignoring my messages, barely calls and doesnt sound exited at all.

its gets more complicated becuase i actually cheated on her last night, i NEVER did anything like this, but i was drunk and it happen. no i think i would just break up with her, because i honestly do like her a lot and i feel really ****ty for doing it.

 

[yoyoing]

let me tell you the truth but you might not listen. She is not that into you anymore. Is it something you can fix ... Doesn't seem like it at this point. If you care for her and want to keep her has a plate in the future just act like you don't really care what she does. Do not contact her until she contact you . Let her do all the work for you to hang out.

In the mean time do like you are doing and see other girls.

Don't feel bad about the cheating this girl does not seem like she care alol that much about you ... ( never talk about it to her )

 

[mrgoodstuff]

so i we've talked and she gave me some stupid excuses that she is not used to a relationship and all that kind of crap. i said fine lets breakup - but she went crazy about it and didn't even want to think about it, i told her she has to make it up to me.

we'll, it has gotten better, but she is still ignoring my messages, barely calls and doesnt sound exited at all.

its gets more complicated becuase i actually cheated on her last night, i NEVER did anything like this, but i was drunk and it happen. no i think i would just break up with her, because i honestly do like her a lot and i feel really ****ty for doing it.

Keep cheating. You will find that she will like you a little and little more as you cheat. It's because you detach and have confidence in what you have to offer...

 

[Lozboss]

OP- Time to Eject.

Dump her. Have the chat and then block her on everything. Full No Contact.

Update when you have done this.

 

[Jetleg]

update: she avoids answering my phone calls, we don't text anymore and she is not in town, so i cant even break up with her, i just went NC.

 

[Lozboss]

Block her on everything. Time to sign up to the NC challenge!