GF does not want to be gone down on?

[juannod]

I don't understand why my GF is not interested in me going down on her. We have a perfectly healthy relationship and have sex fairly often (3-4x/wk). She has no problem going down on me, but will simply not allow me to go down on her.

Perhaps she is self-conscious? In any case, is there anything that I can do to help ease any fears or discomforts she may have in this regard? I frequently tell her how beautiful her body is, but maybe I'm not doing enough.

Ultimately, I'm curious as to the reasoning behind her not wanting me to go down on her. I believe that she would really enjoy the experience, but she seems pretty vehement against it (and won't give a reason as to why).

 

[badboy2007]

My ex was really against me going down on her. Even in the heat of foreplay she would stop and say firmly DON'T DO IT. I assumed she thought she'd smell bad but maybe there are other reasons? Cos i really wanted to give her some pleasure.

 

[kickureface]

same problem here, and thinks doggy style looks stupid even though its the best position
whats going on here???

 

[j0n024]

LOL yes why is it the best position!!!!??? I think it's more of the "Physiological" aspect of it, I dont think she would be that afraid if she smells down there even when she is taking a cvck to the mouth and you sweat and it does smell so I dont think that is it. What I think it is is the way she will think when you kiss her and you went down on her...she will think I am kissing my cl1t and freak out or maybe she is old fashioned, my girl was like that in the beginning but after a while I got fed up with it and just went down on her and after awhile of saying "NO NO NO" I started to hear moaning and no I dont get any resistance when I go down on her anymore. I say keep at it and maybe you can make a new rule for when you guy's sleep togethor to make it better and it will be like a game...the rule will be that she has to sleep naked so now the tension is a little less serious since she is already naked and you can just play with her and get more sex . But just keep persisting and give her a good time good luck.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Maybe she is worried about kissing you afterward? Will she put your d!ck in her mouth right after you take it out of her pvssy?

 

[Leporello]

Maybe she had a bad experience with it. Maybe she thinks you don't know how. Maybe she finds the idea kind of gross. Some girls just don't like it.

 

[district_line]

Yeah my ex had this problem. It got kind've annoying hearing 'no' when i wanted to do it, so I just did it one night. And it just got better and better after that. Couple of things you can do to make it easier: Take a shower together, get her wet and pregame there. This way she feels really clean and comfy when you go for it. Also, the taste can be very weird at first, so I just snuck an altoid in my mouth right before went down, gives you something to play with, along with the ****.

 

[DJ1234]

For an issue like this I wonder what a female would think, like what are some of the reasons why they would or not allow a guy to go down on her? Might want to ask some females on their opinion and you might be able to get an idea cause it's not exactly advice on anything but why they would refraim from it... It almost sounds like it could be some kind of insecturity issue...

 

[DJDamage]

This is something to complain about?! Consider yourself lucky. This girl is giving you BJ and plenty of sex and doesn't complain, so explain to me where is the problem?! How is putting your face into her muff, will make the sex better for you??! if she doesn't want to do this then its her loss and only her loss.