SmoothStroke0331
Don Juan
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Sounds like she wants ol singer boi to give her that melody nawm saying. Brother...next her ass.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gf didn't come home one night
- Thread starter crikeyhanky
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gedmun
Don Juan
Mate you said you cheated on her a few times so what are you complaining about exactly?
why are you even doing a thread about this ?
she is 40 years old and still in party mode , you should have expected this to happen in the moment you decided that you want to have a relationship with her
the whole thread is dumb af . Pointless
she did not do anything wrong towards you , she was just herself
Giovanni SouthSide
Master Don Juan
Reading this sh!t gave me a brain zap.
Give her the walking papers as of yesterday.
You never give consent to let your girl let alone your live in one go out to get wasted and be a groupie for the night. My dawg why did you even permit this without a hard ultimatum?
That alone tells me that she is no good and that your attention as her man is and will never be enough.
She wants to go out and does not care. Ok thats fine.
" When you get back, I want your things out of my property" no further talking needed.
A feminine woman with morals and devotion towards her man will not go out to get twisted of alcohol and be exposed to cheating elements.
Out of her own will she will not do it if she respects you and sees you as her sex god.
Forget about not coming back home. thats a cardinal rule no girl can violate. grounds for dismissal on sight.
This one has no shred of respect for you.
I won't speculate any further on what happened that night she went missing.
They already told you up there.
If you stay with her its going to be a little burning thorn that you will always want to rip out and everytime you do, it will bleed you dry.
Your peace of mind and sanity is at stake here.
Don't let it be disturbed over a no good female.
Always trust your gut it's there for a reason.
Give her the walking papers as of yesterday.
You never give consent to let your girl let alone your live in one go out to get wasted and be a groupie for the night. My dawg why did you even permit this without a hard ultimatum?
That alone tells me that she is no good and that your attention as her man is and will never be enough.
She wants to go out and does not care. Ok thats fine.
" When you get back, I want your things out of my property" no further talking needed.
A feminine woman with morals and devotion towards her man will not go out to get twisted of alcohol and be exposed to cheating elements.
Out of her own will she will not do it if she respects you and sees you as her sex god.
Forget about not coming back home. thats a cardinal rule no girl can violate. grounds for dismissal on sight.
This one has no shred of respect for you.
I won't speculate any further on what happened that night she went missing.
They already told you up there.
If you stay with her its going to be a little burning thorn that you will always want to rip out and everytime you do, it will bleed you dry.
Your peace of mind and sanity is at stake here.
Don't let it be disturbed over a no good female.
Always trust your gut it's there for a reason.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Whether she cheated or not, it was highly disrespectful and I personally wouldn't stand for it. She couldn't call you to pick her up? She couldn't get an Uber? She couldn't even call or send you a text saying she wouldn't be home until the morning? Instead she shows up the next day reeking of alcohol trying to jump your bones because she probably feels guilty about something. That would be a hard next for me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.