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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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GF didnt call, how to respond?

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Ok DJ's, been with this chick for 4 months now. Yes we're exclusive (she asked) and we've been generally having a great time. Shes away visiting friends up North this weekend and before she went she told me she would 'call me'. We dont speak regularly on the phone (hardly ever) as we usually just txt to keep in touch.

Now dont get me wrong she has kept in constant touch with me all weekend via txt but she didnt call like she said she would. Im not particularly bothered by this but Im not sure if I should mention it or just let it slide?

In all honesty she is pretty forgetful and has more than likely forgot she said she would call. This isnt just wishful thinking on my part as shes the kinda girl who would forget her own head if it wasnt screwed on. On the other hand if she tells me she will call I expect a call.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any advice guys?? Ive been thinking today that I should probably just let this one go as she has sent me plenty of txts all weekend.

If Id not heard from her at all Id certainly bring up the 'missed call' but figure now I'll just wait until next time she says she'll call me and jokingly reply with a sarcastic 'yeah sure you will' or something. What you think DJ's?
 
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If things are generally going well, I wouldn't make a capital case out of it. As much as everyone talks about being alpha, that doesn't mean you don't choose your battles. Save your true criticism for bigger issues.
 
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Not a big deal at all.
It's not like she went ghost.
If you wanted to talk, why not just ask her to call?
That will remind her.

If you mention it, it will only put a bad taste in her mouth.

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