Thank You Brother, I guess its probably what I can do now. l'll follow this advice, and see how it goes. I heard that when a girl's interest level drops, its impossible to get it back. But, Im willing to just try it out here.. Will Update everyone on my progress.. Thanks for all the help here DJs.Dergz said:well. good luck man, but i think u messed it up from the beggining, u shuld have drawn the line from the sec. she started communicating with her ex. bt its H2O under the bridge now. so maybe wats left to do now is just try and patch thangs up. u culd start by ridding yo mind of guilt first, stop thinkin u r the loser here, u r not the only loser. she is also stands to lose. now u want things to go back to the way they was right. wat yu can do is just do wat u used to do when things was good btwn y'all. go out often. get goin with the ****y/funny stuff, be the great guy she fell in love with. that way her I.L will go back to 100, and the problems u havin will be overshadowed by the great time u be having. above all man, have a positive mindset while u are at it, cuz nothing messes up everything better than a negative mindset. have relaxed confidence too. (read some of the seduction science reports on relaxed confidence). that way, i think soon u be back on track
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GF Contacting an EX
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DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
dergz here got everything right. hell.. i needed to hear the same too. thanks, dergz.
Dergz
Don Juan
glad i culd b of help
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The number of times a girl has returning feelings for an ex I can't count. Your relationship takes the littlest bit of a (temporary) dip (you're distracted by work or something and she feels neglected) and the pining ex swoops back in and she remembers "the good ol days" and forgets the bad ones and suddenly she's thinking about him and how much "nicer he is than you" (supplicates and buys presents constantly and sh1t) or whatever and boom the seed of discontent and disarray is planted.
Nowadays, this "insecure" thing is thrown about haphazardly as if anything a man views of as "hey that's just wrong or damaging to our relationship" becomes "you're so insecure!" Sometimes sh1t just needs to stop or is inappropriate and the man (or even the woman) has to step up and say hey this isn't helping our relationship at all and we need to talk about it.... and it needs not to be blown off as "you're insecure! you're a weakling! i can do whatever i want because if you have a problem with it i can strip away your masculinity and falsely call you insecure if you call me on my bullsh1t!"
insanity
Master Don Juan
exs are not to be taking very lightly. some guys will act all tough and tell you that there's nothing to worry about. really think about it... some exs make mistakes. their just waiting for a moment of weakness to swoop in. say you and your girl get in a fight, whose she going to tell? maybe they'll discuss it over a few drinks and then they get talking about the good ol days. and bang he makes his move.
next day-thats when your girl says she doesn't know why or how it happened and that it will never happen again! or maybe she just won't tell you at all.
listen to your heart! if you have a bad feeling about this, your intuition is kicking in.
next day-thats when your girl says she doesn't know why or how it happened and that it will never happen again! or maybe she just won't tell you at all.
listen to your heart! if you have a bad feeling about this, your intuition is kicking in.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
izza
Master Don Juan
You could make her promise not to cheat on you with him? Or even better you could force her to choose between you two.
Or, and here's a thought, you could grow a spine, make it absolutely clear that if you even suspect she's cheating on you, she's gone, and not worry about it anymore.
Izza
Or, and here's a thought, you could grow a spine, make it absolutely clear that if you even suspect she's cheating on you, she's gone, and not worry about it anymore.
Izza
pahlease!
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Agreed... My point is that occasional contact is fine... If the it becomes more regular, THEN itsa something that you need to stand up and say "WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON HERE B!tCH?!?!?"mrRuckus said:
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