"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gf constantly sending long texts about how happy and in love she is

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Made another post as previous was misleading have tried to make it detailed as i can.

Background info;
-She asked to be exclusive
-She pays for me time to time
-She initiates every text
-She does most things i ask her to do for me
-Been with her for a year now
-She NEVER initiates hanging out

She sends 1-3 a week especially if she goes out drinking she will send me these long texts of how perfect i am, and how she really does love me ect..

I have never had a girl do this constantly. What is the best response to these texts?
I normally reply;
-Thats great
-I know baby
-Happy too

I feel like replying "I aint reading all that"


Another question is though she does all the above, she NEVER initiates hanging out, has cried several times randomly and says its not about me. I just laughed at her as im not getting caught up in whatever it is.

A bit of insight would be good too please guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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looool i laughed at how many threads from you titled "gf ___ texts." well did you ever ask her to hang out? and dude, you feel the same or what?
 
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ghostridur said:
looool i laughed at how many threads from you titled "gf ___ texts." well did you ever ask her to hang out? and dude, you feel the same or what?
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I have told her I love her too, when she writes this stuff. Then she gets distant. I only say it now when she says it to me in person.
 
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Made another post as previous was misleading have tried to make it detailed as i can.

Background info;
-She asked to be exclusive
-She pays for me time to time
-She initiates every text
-She does most things i ask her to do for me
-Been with her for a year now
-She NEVER initiates hanging out

She sends 1-3 a week especially if she goes out drinking she will send me these long texts of how perfect i am, and how she really does love me ect..

I have never had a girl do this constantly. What is the best response to these texts?
I normally reply;
-Thats great
-I know baby
-Happy too

I feel like replying "I aint reading all that"


Another question is though she does all the above, she NEVER initiates hanging out, has cried several times randomly and says its not about me. I just laughed at her as im not getting caught up in whatever it is.

A bit of insight would be good too please guys
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I would say be very careful of how sucked in you get with the way she is treating you. I know its great when a woman acts like this but once you open yourself up to this then she drops the bomb on you with a 180 in her attitude.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would say be very careful of how sucked in you get with the way she is treating you. I know its great when a woman acts like this but once you open yourself up to this then she drops the bomb on you with a 180 in her attitude.
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Yeah I feel it coming. I don't know why just know.

In response to her 2 long texts of how much she loves and how she's never been so happy ect

I already sent "Glad ur happy but u now owe me a pizza having to read all that"
Her "sounds like a good deal :p"
Me "U no it love u too"

Opened up too much by saying that?
 
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honestly, i would talk to her about texting too much in less you actually like that...it will give her a little healthy suffering as well making her even more crazy about you..but i would only do this if you really don't like it..no point in being fake about it..

Also, don't worry about her not initiating to hang out..some girls are taught the guy has to do that and some just believe it's proof the guy is still or really into them in the first place...don't sweat that trust me...have the same scenario with my current GF who is really into me...

I hate the the random crying stuff....seems like i always snag those types as well.....only thing to be worried about here is if she is bipolar or not...but really, so far you have nothing to worry about...just keep a somewhat healthy distance emotionally like you would any other girl....a year is not that long to trust someone...and it's okay to say love you back if she initiates...just keep it very very seldom..
 
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Just keep doing what youre doing. As long as she keeps proving her words with actions you have nothing to be concerned about.
 
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In2theGame said:
I would say be very careful of how sucked in you get with the way she is treating you. I know its great when a woman acts like this but once you open yourself up to this then she drops the bomb on you with a 180 in her attitude.
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JoeMarron said:
Just keep doing what youre doing. As long as she keeps proving her words with actions you have nothing to be concerned about.
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Here here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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