Gf complains that I don't open up to her

[Monkey]

We've only been going out for a few weeks but my gf is already saying that I don't open my feelings to her. She really likes me but she's confused how I feel about her due to me not actually telling her.

The main reason is I just don't want to rush things, and in previous relationships I've given my all just to have a gf slowly lose interest.

Any ideas?

 

[InLawsHateMe]

On the right track my man... this is usually a sign of interest. Just reveal a little here, and a little there. She obviously likes you, and is wondering if you like her as much. You know how this goes... good luck dude.

 

[TheCloser]

Yes, this is a good sign...challenge.

Next time she says, "you aren't opening up to me" just reply back, "Oh really, because I can already read you like a book"

Have fun,

 

[Liz]

You should take things slow with the whole opening up idea. You don't want to sound like an AFC, but you don't want to be a d!ck about it either.

Just little bits at a time just enough to show her you care

Liz

 

[Milliardo_Peacecraft]

Tell her: "Ok then,Ill let you know one thing,but only one.Now,what is it that you want to know?"

 

[Monkey]

I feel like my hand is being forced to reveal my feelings for her.

The truth is 'I like her' but thats all for now, I think she must have deeper feelings for me as she liked me for some time before we got together.

Although I think I've been playing my cards too close to my chest and I've come across as too cold and uncaring somehow.

I used to be a really romantic guy and I think lately I've shifted too much the other way, just need to find that balance.

 

[Starman]

I would SHow her you like her by doing something for her..I would Never again verbally tell a girl I like her unless we were deep in a relationship...

I have a friend who everytime chicks corner him to say He likes them back..he says "Ya I like you" but in a really bored and uninterested kind of way..like he was forced to say it..It works for him

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by Starman
I would Never again verbally tell a girl I like her unless we were deep in a relationship

I know what you mean, I completely stuffed up with a past gf because I 'discussed my feelings for her' (makes me want to vomit even thinking about it) early on in a relationship.