"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gf calls too much... getting bored

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ok soo ive been goi ng out with this girl for 2 weeks and its gotten to the point were she calls like 3 times a day talks too me on facebook as soon as i log on and has pretty much fallen in love with me straight away.

now im not sure if ive got a problem or if all men are like this but when a girl gets like this to me it kinda scares me away as its happened before and it just makes me lose interest in them.

my question is how do i get her to call me less because i like this girl and i dont want lose interest in her too quickly.

now my other question is do you guys get scared off when a girl get too keen on you or am i just weird
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yea thats some creepy physco ***** tendencies there I would watch out for the stalker in her.. no offense. maybe just only answer her phone calls once a day or once every couple days and see if she gets the hint?
 
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well she did break up with for bf of 2 years for me and she did lose her virginity to me in a one night stand a few years ago so i was thinking maybe shes just used to being in an in-depth relationship?
 
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dj ben2 said:
well she did break up with for bf of 2 years for me and she did lose her virginity to me in a one night stand a few years ago so i was thinking maybe shes just used to being in an in-depth relationship?
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Well yeah maybe, but that doesn't excuse her for sucking.
 
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Im in pretty much the opposite situation as the OP where my gf of a couple weeks doesn't text hardly at all now or anything..

I've got sick of being the firsst to communicate, so its now 2 days with N/C...I would have thought she would take the initiative by now, but apparently not.. madness!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are dealing with the girl version of an AFC! Fun isn't it? I had a really hot girl like that but I couldn't take it! I ended it but the nice thing was she was so addicted to me it was an easy booty call.. She would drive two hours just if I asked her to.

These girls are good lessons to any afc guys out there. You just loose interest and get annoyed right? Well think of how any girls feel when they are dealing with an afc..
 
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Also, it could be that you're just not really into the girl in the first place. I've had girls like that and thought I was turned off because of their behavior. But then another girl did the same thing, and I didn't mind it at all.
 
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Just talk to her about it. Set some ground rules.
 
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