"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GF calls other male celebrities "Hot"

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Here's a quick question. Is it some sort of test when a woman constantly calls other male celebrities hot?

Take, for example, the other day. My girlfriend met David Beckham and all she kept saying was "OMG HES SO MUCH HOTTER IN PERSON" and "OMG I CANT BELEIVE I MET MY FUTURE HUSBAND"

It doesnt bother me, at all. Im just not sure if its some 'test' put up by her to test my confidence or just because she knows it doesnt bother me?

I usually just respond with some corny line like "yesss omg seeing him makes me wet myself" and she laughs

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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to think that david beckham is good looking or hot? perfectly normal...
to dream about david beckham and his hotness? perfectly normal...
to tell your boyfriend that you met any celebrity and that they will be your future husband? f'ng delusional!

she's star struck alright.
 
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Who cares man I say your line was perfect man.

Listen,this is what you should think in your mind. "Let the girl talk whatever she wants to.She can think all the BS she wants about being Beckhams wife but she knows its not going to happen."

Its the same **** as when guys fantasize about getting it on with like Jessica Alba.We know its not going to happen,but we still like to think about it regardless of who we are with.The fact that she mentions it straight up to you means nothing.Shes trying to mess with you.Laugh in front of her face next time she says it.Then you tell her you met Jessica Alba and she will be your future wife.
 
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she puts it on her away messages too..like it use to say i miss my bf or some other junk like that. but now sisnce she met him all its been was

" he is even hotter i person omg omg omg" and trash like that..

ill just bring up some hot femaile celebrity up one day i guess haha
 
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ill just bring up some hot femaile celebrity up one day i guess haha
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Haha yeah just have fun with it, it's not a big deal. Sh!t test.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's trying to make you jealous. She's looking for a reaction out of you. Believe me, past girlfriends have admitted to trying to make me jealous...

If it bothers you, tell her you don't like hearing about her talking about other men in that way and that you find it kind of hurtful and in a way disrespecting you. If she has any decency at all, she will stop her whole game. Sounds like it goes against the rules, but **** the rules if it really does bother you... Would you rather act like you don't care even though it eats you up inside? Gotta put your foot down if it does.

If it doesn't, then play her own game back towards her... If she's purposely trying to make you jealous, that's usually a sign that she's a jealous type herself.

Good luck!
 
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to this i would say "yeah i know, david beckham is hotttttt" dont let it bother you, she's trying to, she's trying to put her in the higher position to make you look insecure and unstable in the relationship to mask her own insecurities, every girl has em. Just show you're values that high it cant touch you ;)
 
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