"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Always wondered about this since im really not use to LTRs...

my gf always initiates contact first by phone

heres how we usually depart

1. when we're on the phone talking casually and i ACTUALLY have to go, I go.

2. however alot of the time like 20 - 30 min into the convo i don't actually have anything to do lol but will just make up some bull**** excuse that i gota hang up.

the thing is regardless of the two above situations, she always BEGS me to stay longer, "pleeeeeze baby i just wana talk to u ive been wanting to all day ur all i thought about" kind of **** and i usually end up caving

shuld i dead it? i mean if i actually have to go i have no problem leaving but i feel bad wen i literally have nothing to do n shes so desperate to talk
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bigdavis said:
Never give a woman exactly what she wants.
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Good advice to follow here. Now you'll be the one she complains to her emotional tampon about... saying that "you don't want to talk on the phone" for an hour a day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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