"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GF broke up with me

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trd323

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Well, I was in a 2 1/2 year great relationship. No fights, arguments, etc. But 1 month ago my feelings started to change for her. I was taking her for granted, seeing her as a friend, and 2 girls wanted to hook up with me. So, I decided to take a break. She took it hard and so did I. Well, after about 1 month I decided that I really did care for her, and so I told her, and we continued the relationship. However, 4 days after she tells me that now she needs to find herself, and she breaks it off completly; not just a break, but a break up. Man I feel like ****. Now I dont know if taking a break from her ended it, but I really feel a lot for her. Its been so hard to think about it. I took a break because I wanted to see if I really truly cared, but I did, and it sucks she did not see it that way.

Now what do I do? should I keep in contact with her or should it be clean break? should I fight for her? its soooo hard because I truly feel that she was the ONE.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think you could fix this situation up.


It seemed like a clean break providing she doesnt know about the 2 girls you may have done something with. If you did do something with those two girls i would say dont bother getting her back. She will never let you forget that you cheated on her, and the relationship would suck. Also if you did hook up i would say move on because you truly dont respect her as a person.

If she doesnt know or if you didnt hook up with those 2 girls i would just tell her that you messed up and that you want to work things out. You may also be feeling this way because a lot of times humans want what they can't have. Now that you cant have you are are wanting her more.

I personally feel that she'll date you again. If not id put her on the back burner and keep in contact on a monthly basis.

Good luck man
 
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You reap what you sow. You totally disrespected her and she was faithful to you. You can bet her friends told her to ditch your azz. They've probably already introduced her to new prospects, and so she may have some offers. I can't say i blame her. Live and learn and move on because think this one is too damaged to recover worthily.
 
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