Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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senor boom boom

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my girl's bday is coming up soon. i've been seeing her for about six months ("going out" for about three or four) and am having a blast- great fun, great sex all of the above.

i'm putting her present in a pizza box (in-joke) and will have heaps of other in-jokes included in that eg massage oil, thong. but i'm unsure as to the proper serious present. i'm thinking a necklace from tiffany's. what do you think? any recommendations?

i already know she'll laugh at the other part its just i want her to really like the proper present.

cheers
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NewMan

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Does she like to travel?

You could take her on a weekend away....

Or - A massage is always great for chickies.
 

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Originally posted by senor boom boom
i'm putting her present in a pizza box (in-joke) and will have heaps of other in-jokes included in that eg ...
This is on the right track. Now you just want to extend that to a serious present. Try to remember something that she has said she wanted, even in passing. You get brownie points because it looks like you were listening to her. The further back it was mentioned and the more briefly it was mentioned, the more brownie points.
 

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i say give her something she ll remamber for while, like a nice necklace, or braclet or nice pair of earings, maybe even a Vibrator, just kidding :) nice parfum, and a roses hmmm. use your imagination!
 

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Nothing says lovin' for a girl like something from Tiffany's. You could get her this for an ok price. Or you could get her the first letter of her first name in silver or gold from the Elsa Peretti Alphabet collection.

Depending on your age and what your job is these things aren't really that expensive, and the name alone will make most chicks wet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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senor boom boom

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thanks heaps guys. i think i'll go with the tiffany letter necklace. a friend of mine from work (female) told me about them too, so i think that'll go down well
 

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I dont agree w/ the other guys a/b the jewelery. I've gave my last girlfriend, whom I'd been dating for 6 months, jewelry for her birthday, and she broke up with me a few weeks later. Dumb bisches take my sh** and dont return it- so i'd advise not to get jewelry (unless it's cheap) and i dont think tiffany's is
 

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I like the trip idea. You can get some cheap cruises on Ebay. That'd be tight as hell for you. No worries about her taking your stuff after you break up, cause you got the experience as well.
 
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