GF Big Dilema, (A real world issue not no bf gf drama bs)

[Kaine]

Why tell her your breaking up with her? Why not just do it?

I think you need to tell her why, as part of the conditioning process I believe you need to make it known what behaviour displeases you, and what the consequences are because of it for her to learn not to do it again.

Stimulus -> Conditioning Response
Hence
Disrespectful behaviour -> No attention or affection (punishment)

However Newman is correct that you should not directly state to her that you will be waiting.

Kaine

 

[Black Panther®]

yeh i see.

She texted me this morning talking about " gmorning and happy 3 month anniversary" lol, and she hasnt text me in i dont know how long, im glad i got this power back.