Gf being rude how to turn it around

[PLAYED]

Gf text "Oi nobhead, am I going to see you soon?

Her saying "Am i going to see you soon?" Does not bother me its that she texted "Oi nobhead" that is the problem.

I texted her last time to invite her which she did agree too saying "B1tch you can stay mine tonight" so thats why she has texted "Oi nobhead, am i going too see you soon". My fault i agree.

I don't know how the replies you gave will turn this around. To stop her from doing this?

My options
Go NC and don't see her (which is a bad scenario as we are in R/H)
Reply: Say "I want too see you" then i mite do (directly making it clear its not acceptable and show its effected me)

The fact is she is just playing but its a slippery slope from here if play this off. She will then think its acceptable to call me names and get away with it as she did before, so why would it change. She has been a good gf so far but its reaching the point where she now starting to "feel" me out, to what she can get away with. Me saying B1tch to her has given her that opening to say it.

Just want a way to indirectly make it known to her this is not acceptable.

So advice on how to do this?

 

[typical]

Umm you are way overthinking this mate.

Reply back with a "yea come over tonight and be a good bit(h and wear something sexy"

 

[Nutz]

Treat it as a sh|t test and do one of the following:

* Agree & amplify (to absurdity)

* Ignore

* Change the subject

* Pressure flip (answer her question very quickly and at the same time flip the question around on her so the spotlight is on her and not you. Really hard to accomplish with texting though.


I think I'd go with a rapport break (via sexual innuendo) as part of agree & amplify with something like the following. Hopefully you get the gist of it:

"Oh yeah baby, my nobhead can't wait to see you! I'll be over <x day>. See you then! "