"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im leaving on new orders to go to another base in a different country. I told my gf before we meet but we got together and now its almost that time for me to leave. We both love each other very much. She is getting very emotional as the time past and its really getting to me...to hear her cry all the time (on the phone..2 times during sex) I dont know what to do, I love her enough to marry her but IM about to go to Japan!! SHe start asking me strange question the other day about what would happen if she gets pregnate...what would i do....I told her i would probally marry her (Good thing she is on her period now, I think it would be smart for me now to go back to condoms) I know gurls would do crazy stuff like try to get pregnate. Of all the gurls i been with some one...she is on the top of the list to marry...and im ready to settle down myself pretty soon..almost 23. You guys think if I pomise to come back to marry her after 6 months in japan is a good ideal? Then it would be about a year since we been together and I can be temped in japan to see if I would fail or pass to see if i would cheat on her. If i dont desire other gurls i would know she is the one.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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You only been with her almost a year? If that is the case you have not lived with her long enough to see if she is wifey material.

What is she being emotional about? You leaving for Japan?
 
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6 months is too long to leave a chick and expect to come back to a relationship or at least one where no cheating has been involved.

Also you will desire other girls while you are over there it is only natural.

The test for yourself would simply be to not act on your desire but can you really trust your emotional girlfriend to not be swayed by Jack the midnight manager at the local grocery store that she talks to while you are away who really understands her better than you ever did and will become her new soulmate while you are away?

Jarhead is a great military movie to watch if you want to see whats probably going to happen to your relationship.

I'd bail now if I were you bro but if you can't bring yourself to do that at least do what aliasguy would do and that is fvck all the chicks you can get over in Japan and don't tell your wife to be about it and if she's there for you when you get back and you two still want eachother score one for you.
 
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