“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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GF becomes friends with her EX...

illmatic1005

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my gf recently became friends with her EX again...she tells me that they were really close friends and stuff and that its not worth not talking to him..

any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has your relationship with her been going well to the best of your knowledge up to this point?

Has her words been in accordance with her actions towards you?

Are you getting an ominous gut feeling about this friendship with the ex that makes you sense its something more than innocent friendship and perhaps her emotions aren't fully over him?
 

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welll..she broke up with him a while ago and he kept sobbing that he loves her and whatnot and they always flirt and whatever...but when we she became my gf, she told him and told him not to tell some person, which he did anyway.....for a week she ignored him and hated him for betraying him but her parents convinced her to become friends again....

she finally caved in and wrote a letter to him saying ''blah blah you wanna be friends again?'' but told me she will never trust him again...
 

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illmatic1005 said:
my gf recently became friends with her EX again...she tells me that they were really close friends and stuff and that its not worth not talking to him..

any advice?
Im going to tell you the Truth. Either you believe me and take my advice or do as you wish.

An Ex involved is ALWAYS a bad thing. Why? because many things can happen. 1) The "Spark" between the two can happen. 2) He F***ed her, He remembers that, She remembers that, again, the "Spark" can happen. 3) she can cheat on you with him but you would never find out because they are "friends" and "just" that. :rolleyes: . An ex is an ex for a reason, the Ex is for the Past. Not worth not talking to him? If she feels that way then in other words shes saying, Your Feelings and respect are not worth more than her Ex. Time to pack her bags and get her out of your life before she F**s around with you and your heart. Then you will find yourself listening to her "im Confused" Speech over the phone. Mark my words.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
welll..she broke up with him a while ago and he kept sobbing that he loves her and whatnot and they always flirt and whatever...but when we she became my gf, she told him and told him not to tell some person, which he did anyway.....for a week she ignored him and hated him for betraying him but her parents convinced her to become friends again....

she finally caved in and wrote a letter to him saying ''blah blah you wanna be friends again?'' but told me she will never trust him again...
Oh and by the way, One of the most important rules in DJ'ing is always go by a girls actions, not her words. I love when a girl is telling a guy "OMG we shouldnt be doing this, this is wrong" yet shes pulling him deeper towards her. Ugh.. Woman... :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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:nono: Beware of becoming the "Rebound Guy."
 

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I dont' want to be negative but i learned early on this usually is a BAD thing. Doesn't mean it will be in your case, but I would say the majority it tends to be bad.
 

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This is bad.
Heads up.
Watch out.

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