this is the **** test that seperates the DJ's from the AFC's in real time.
Any attractive woman you date is going to have the following:
1) Male Suitors who hate you for the simple fact that you are fvcking "their girl"
2) Male "friends" who jsut wanna "hang out"
You are dealing with a woman that gets hit on 1 to 3 times a DAY. Most attractive women aren't at a shortage of men.
Here is my theory.. it just's a theory.. it's not law.
I would shot a girll down automatically that asked me to change any part of my life for her.. besides stopping to fvck other women, which is natural. I can't be a hypocrite and make her stop talking to her male friends as well.
Granted, we all know waht 19 out of 20 of thoose guys want. But we also know, from experence, that just because he wants it doesn't mean it's going to happen. she has to want it just as bad. adn as long as you give her a reason not to want it just as bad, you are fine.
Nothing good can come out of making an objection in this situtation
If you do it's a sign of insecurity, which will drive her to do what you are trying to advoid in the first place
The best thing to do in that situtation is to do the exact opposite. EXACT. Be as supportive as you possibly can. As fvcked up as it sounds... hear me out:
when it's all said and done, one thign I have learned about women, is that a woman has a loaded pistol with 1 bullet.. her pvssy. Her giving it and taking it away is her best asset she has. the posibility of her making it available scares most men into possessive behavior. By beign supporting and not clingy, by incourageing her to go out, maintain her old friends... what can she do? you've disarmed her. she has no weapons anymore.. she's firing blanks.
more times than not it's just a **** test anyway.. which you have by defalt passed with flying colors. If it's not a **** test and she has an old friend.. that's great. you go see an old friend to and let's see how long she keeps that old friend.
If she had the idea to go out and get some, your attitude on the situtation will throw her in such a loop, she will be more bewildered than anxious to do anything and her curosity will spike back up in why you are acting so supportive in a situtation where sex with someone else is a real posibility.
It NEVER fails.
more times than not, it's the second option.... it's a **** test. She just wants to see how clingy you really are when the heat is on. women aren't dumb. it's one thing to say "babe i'm this and babe i'm that.. i'm this.. blah blah.. it's another thing to bE that under pressure.
show your woman how you feela bout her.. dont' TELL her.. show her. Grab her ass and start nibblign on her neck when she's getting ready to go out because you can't keep your hands off her.
and if all else fails.. your other plates should be on your hand being getting ready to be spinning at full throttle.
**** just last night my GF told me she was going to dinner with a guy from work who she had to keep a good relationship with.. but made it known he was extremely attracted to her. hell what the fvck am I supposed to do? Cry? Beg her not to go out on a work related project to do what she needed to do? she's been doing it bfore she meet me.. I'm added to her life, her life doesn't revolve around me.
Confidence works in a funny way. the more you have, the more **** happens in favor for you. the more you don't have, the moer it rains on your head and trouble somehow finds where you live.
