"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

gf asked guy for a dance

Thread starter pyros
Start date Feb 21, 2012

pyros

Master Don Juan

Feb 22, 2012

Hi,

it is not that I think she's gonna cheat or that she liked the guy...I'm pretty sure about this.
BUT, I was asking how do I delimit this kind of thing? is it ok if she dances with a friend of hers every ONCE IN A WHILE?
is it ok if EVERYTIMEwe go to a salsa club she dances with a friend of hers?

This is what I want to know for the future.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.